This is following the hidden rules and do things that keep others having good thoughts about us.
What is "Doing What is Expected"
100
Using information that you already know in order to make an educated guess.
What is a "Smart Guess"
100
This is when you use your eyes, ears, feet, hands, and brain to focus on the group. Doing this shows tat your are listening and paying attention.
What is "Whole Body Listening"
100
This is when you use your eyes to figure out what non-verbal messages that other people are sending.
What is "Thinking With your Eyes"
100
This is when you make a guess when you have absolutely no information to help you figure out what the guess should be.
What is a "Wacky Guess"
200
Understanding that problems differ in size. Some problems may be more intense than others and you have to decide how to react to it.
What is "Tiny Problem vs. Big Problem"
200
This is when your body has moved away from others and it appears that you are not an active participant.
What is "Your Body Rolled Out of the Group"
200
This is when you have to act like you are interested in someone else's topic that you do not find interesting. This is not lying, but being respectful to others about their interests that may be different than yours.
What is "Social Fake"
200
This is when you don't follow a set of rules or hidden rules in a specific situation.
What is "Doing What is Unexpected"
200
This is when you "obey" a set of rules that are not clearly given. You have to figure these out by observing and paying attention to what is going around you.
What is "Following the Hidden Rules"
300
These are what you ask people when you try to get them to talk about what you want to talk about. Sometimes we do this to get more information from another person.
What is "Baiting or Bridging Questions"
300
You need to do the following when communicating with others: Think about others, Create a physical presence, Think with your eyes, and Use language that relate to others.
What is "Four Steps of Communication"
300
This is an imaginary place in our brains where we organize information about others. We recall this information when we see those people again.
What are "Friend Files"
300
This is when your brain is distracted from what others are doing. Others will think that your not mentally working with them.
What is "Your Brain Rolled Out of the Group"
300
This refers to a set of socially acceptable behaviors that we do when we're not interested in what the group is doing at the moment but we still hang in there and do not distract others.
What is "Tolerating the Boring Moment"
400
This is a comment that is completely disconnected to what has been previously said.
What is a "Whopping Topic Change"
400
This is when your brain keeps thinking about what the group is thinking about and when your body looks interested and is connected to the group.
What is "Keeping Your Body and Brain in the Group"
400
This refers to getting more information from others by asking about their interests or thoughts.
What is "Asking People Questions"
400
These are thoughts that we have about others that are either good or not so good/weird.
What is "Blue Thoughts vs. Red Thoughts"
400
This is being able to adjust to differences and thoughts.
What is "Flexible Thinking and Flexible Brain"
500
This is when you have a thought about someone's experience or beliefs and then ask questions or comment that is related.
What is "Social Wondering"
500
This is when we must learn that a behavior that was once acceptable is not longer acceptable now that you're older.
What is the "Rules Change"
500
This is when we add comments to others when talking with them so that it helps connect our lives to their lives.
What is "Add-a-Thought"
500
This is when we observe people's physical actions or comments to decide what they plan to do next.
What is "Figuring Out Other People's Plans"
500
This refers to asking questions that focus on the interests or thoughts about the person or people you're relating to.
What is "Asking Questions to the People You're Talking to about These People"