Etiquette and its History
What is the most essential rule of etiquette?
Treat other people as you want to be treated. (Matthew 7:12)
What items should always be passed 'together'?
Salt and Pepper
What does being late say to the other person?
My time is more important than yours
What is another name for "American style" utensil handling and when is it appropriate?
Zigzag method/style
It is appropriate when in America or Canada
What distance should you put between you and others when talking on the phone?
10 feet
What should you do when someone speaks to you?
Always answer
If food is not being passed to a specific person, in which direction should you pass food around the table?
From left to right
What is an appropriate time frame for Graduation thank you notes to be sent?
Within 1 month
How do you know which utensil to use at each course of the meal?
Use the 'outside-in' rule
What are the 2 options if your caller wants to discuss personal details while you are in public?
Move someplace private or switch to texting
What should you give and receive sincerely?
Compliments
Where should you put your bread and butter, and what is the proper way to then eat them?
Bread and butter go on the bread plate. Break off a bite sized piece of bread, spread on butter and eat.
What is the English translation of RSVP?
Respond, if you please.
After all guests are served and the host begins or when your host invites you to begin
When is it appropriate to have a phone conversation (by talking or text) at the table?
Never
Where and when did formal etiquette originate?
French Royal court during the 1600-1700's
If you need to leave the table temporarily, where should you place your napkin?
In your chair
What should you do if you are going to arrive late?
Call or Text
When setting the table for a meal, in which direction should the knife blade face?
Toward the plate
What should you do with your phone in a movie theater?
Turn it off.
What did King Louis XIV command everyone at court to do?
"Keep within the etiquettes"
If you are finished with your meal, what should you do with your napkin?
Fold and place to the left of your place setting.
In what time frame should you send Thank you notes for birthday gifts?
1-2 weeks
When seated at the table, on which side is your bread and butter plate and which side is your drink?
Bread and butter - Left
Drink - Right
Why should you not text in class, church, meetings or other functions?
You should give the speaker your undivided attention.