Why Etiquette Matters
Valuing others and trying to make them comfortable is called this.
What is Etiquette?
True friends make you _________, not worse.
What is Better
These utensils are on the left side of the plate.
What is the salad fork and dinner fork?
These are times when a thank you note is appropriate.
4 corners
Fastest hands in the west
dining relay
tasks relay
Pictionary with hygiene
You show this when you are caring about someone's feelings and helping others know that you care about them and value their thoughts and ideas.
What is respect?
When you see someone else is suffering and you do something to help relieve their suffering or help them get through a tough time.
What is Showing Compassion?
Words we use when passing the food during a meal?
What are the magic words (please, thank you, you're welcome: Please pass the..., yes, thank you and no thank you?
These are the steps to a sincere apology.
What are 1. recognize you committed a wrong. 2. acknowledge you committed a wrong without blame or excuse. 3. verbalize apology with sincerity. 4. commit to not repeating the behavior and keeping your word?
When someone else does something impolite, it is never proper etiquette to do this.
What is to tell them that they have bad manners?
When an adult enters the room, or the president, or someone you don't know that you are being introduced to you should do this.
What is stand up.
The ability to feel another's suffering, not just through understanding but by putting yourself in their shoes. Often having gone through your own suffering helps you to really understand what someone else is experiencing.
What is Empathy?
Because most people are right handed and so you don't cut yourself, the table is set this way.
Why is the knife on the right side of the plate with the blade facing the plate?
This character quality is a state of happiness and satisfaction that has nothing to do with money, objects, or people. It is just a state of mind.
What is contentment?
This was one of the stories we heard this week.
The crow and the peacock, The seeds, The wooden Bowl,
These are the four parts of a proper introduction.
What is Eye Contact, Strong Voice, Smile, Firm Handshake.
Two ways to respond to teasing or bullying.
What are: Ignore it, Walk Away, Tell an Adult, Laugh it Off.
This is what you should always offer after you have been a guest at someone's house for a meal.
What is offering to help clean up or do dishes?
These are three of the many skills you should use to have good verbal communication.
What are: good eye contact, strong voice, don't interrupt, be positive, don't argue, be positive, be a good listener, don't talk too much.... or any three skills of the many we discussed?
The character trait that means to do what is right even when no one is looking.
What is integrity?
What are making sure you are safe, healthy, well educated, and learn life skills to succeed in life?
This is when you can understand what the person is feeling and you feel badly for them.
What is Sympathy?
Two of the important facts that were on your dining etiquette placemat.
What are: I sit still at the table, my napkin is in my lap, I use the magic words, I don't talk with my food in my mouth, I tell the cook "thank you", I chew with my mouth closed, I never take big bites?
These are 4 of the guidelines for polite sharing or borrowing.
What are: 1. Ask before you take something, 2. Use magic words, 3. commit to when you will return the item, 4. never loan out something that isn't yours, 5. take extra care of the item, 6. return it in the same or better condition, 7. Show your appreciation.
The names of everyone in our class today.
Can you say everyone's name without any help?