Universal Blueprint
Building a Foundation
Self-Esteem Toolset
Cooperation Toolset
Independence Toolset
100
Healthy communication and a foundation of love and respect are trains of these.
What are healthy families.
100
Pawel addresses all of Baumrind's parenting styles except for this one.
What is a Neglectful parenting style
100
Allowing children to do this can create good learning experiences and help them develop courage.
What is making mistakes
100
Pawel advises turning negative orders into these.
What are positive requests
100
Personal, general, and specific are all types of this.
What is responsibility
200
The SHARP-RV acronym stands for these.
What are Safety, Health, Appropriateness, Rights, Property, Rules, and Values
200
Considering child traits, family traits, and societal goals are recommendations for choosing this.
What is a parenting style
200
This points out any effort made, even if a task is still in progress.
What is encouragement
200
Saying, “I really appreciated your help with dinner and chores while I was sick. Why don’t you choose a special meal for us to have next week?” is an example of offering this.
What is a reward
200
The parental believe that, "I must provide enough freedom for my child to grow based upon what I teach" is indicative of a balance between these.
What are choices and limits
300
The Universal Blueprint is effective for guiding children in these types of families.
What is any family type (the UB is flexible)
300
“Become the kind of person you want your child to become.” is an example of this parenting tool.
What is "Be a Role Model"
300
Fears of creating conceited children or fostering overconfidence are sometimes associated with using these.
What are compliments
300
This strategy is often used to manipulate, control, or otherwise influence children into doing what the adult wants.
What is bribery
300
This can aid in teaching skills such as earning, saving, and budgeting money.
What is an allowance
400
These are four of the types of problems that can be identified using the Universal Blueprint.
What are (any four): No Problem, Child Problem, Parent Problem, Parent Problem-Unintentional Misbehavior, Parent Problem-On-Purpose Misbehavior, Part Child Part Parent Problem
400
Rules apply to children and adults; children get respect and earn privileges, children learn to make decisions with limits; mistakes are lessons are all descriptive of this parenting style, as explained by Pawel.
What is a Balanced style
400
Some of the problems associated with using this include resistance, giving into negative peer pressure, and developing unhealthy pride.
What is praise
400
Offering other choices, giving information, and recognizing feelings are alternatives to this.
What is saying "No"
400
Although it can take extra time and patience, doing this can help teach children life skills and promotes independence.
What is allowing children to do things for themselves
500
The foundation-building, self-esteem, cooperation, and independence toolsets are all a part of this toolbox.
What is the Prevention Toolbox
500
Parents who sacrifice their own needs in order to please others and give their children the things that they didn't have would be classified as this type of parent.
What is an over-indulger
500
Often confused with self-esteem, this has to do with our thoughts about our outside appearance.
What is self image
500
These help to increase parental consistency, eliminate power struggles, and help family unity.
What are routines
500
These are three of the tools suggested in this independence toolset.
What are (any three): Openly model behavior Teach Skills Give a Quick Tip Let Kids do Things Themselves Notice the Difficulty Let Kids Help You Ask their Opinion Wait before Answering Show Kids how to use Outside Resources Respect Kids’ Privacy Let Kids Dream Nudge; don’t Push Let Go and Trust!
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