Expected or Unexpected: Classroom
You whisper about your favorite music with a friend while the teacher is talking.
Unexpected
You talk with a friend about your favorite music while you eat.
Expected
These are people who you know and like. You choose to spend time with them because they do nice things for you and you do nice things for them.
A) Stranger
B) Friends
C) Teachers
B) Friends
Your friend is wearing something new and you really like it. You say, "I like your new shirt." Is this a conflict, compromise, or a compliment?
Compliment!
True or False?
During group you are allowed to look at Instagram, Snapchat, and other social media apps.
False!
You want to tell your friend something during class, but you wait until class is over to tell them.
Expected
You tell a new student that they can't sit next to you during lunch because you don't like their clothes.
Unexpected
These people are dangerous; they may tick you in a bad way.
A) Romantic Partner
B) Teachers
C) Strangers who are not nice to you
C) Strangers who are not nice to you
You are deciding with a friend about what to do during Fun Friday free time. You'd like to do a puzzle, but they would like to build bracelets. You decide to do a quick puzzle first, and then build bracelets. Is this a conflict, compliment, or a compromise?
Compromise!
True or False?
When someone is sharing something in group it is important to keep an open mind and listen to what they have to say.
True!
Unexpected
At lunch you play your music loudly on a speaker because you think everyone else will like the same music as you.
Unexpected
When we are in a relationship with someone who we have romantic feelings for and they have romantic feelings for us, it is called:
A) A Best Friendship
B) A Romantic Relationship
C) Stranger Danger
B) A Romantic Relationship
You and another friend are walking in the hallway together. A student you do not know comes up to you and asks you for money. You say "no" so they tell you that you are ugly and mean. You yell at them that they are the ugly and mean one. You all start yelling at each other and a teacher has to come and break it up.
Conflict!
True or False?
Confidentiality means, "What is said in group stays in group."
True!
A new student comes to class so you welcome them to sit next to you during class.
Expected
During lunch you sit next to your romantic partner. When you're done eating, you hold hands.
Expected
The friend you like the most. You might want to hang out alone with them, but you do not have romantic feelings for them.
A) Romantic partner
B) Acquaintance
C) Best Friend
C) Best Friend
You score well on a project and your teacher tell you, "You did a great job!" Is this a compliment or compromise?
Compliment!
True or False?
During group, if someone is saying something we disagree with, we can stand up and tell the they are wrong right away.
False! We treat each other with respect when we disagree and wait until it is our turn to talk.
During class, your romantic partner and you send each other texts saying how much you love each other.
Unexpected
Someone you have never met before asks you to leave the lunchroom during lunch and walk around the halls.
Unexpected
These are people you don't know very well, but they seem to be nice to you.
A) Friends
B) Romantic Partners
C) Acquaintances
C) Acquaintances
You want to do the drum routine, dance, and sing at the school assembly. You teacher suggests that you only pick one, but you promise to work hard to practice all 3. You teacher agrees to let you do 2 as long as you practice hard. Is this a conflict, compliment, or a compromise?
Compromise!
True or False?
During group you should only volunteer when you feel like what you are saying is going to be "right" and accepted by others.
False! In group we should share our thoughts, even if they are different from others because we can all learn from each other.