What is an example of an expected behavior when commenting on a friend’s post?
using respectful language, being supportive
What is an expected behavior when working in a group project?
taking turns, contributing equally
If a friend shares a secret with you, what is an expected way to respond?
keeping it private, showing empathy.
What is an expected behavior when ordering food at a restaurant?
using polite language, waiting in line.
What do we call the natural outcomes of our actions, whether positive or negative?
Consequences.
If you post something rude about a classmate, how might that impact their thoughts and feelings?
embarrassed, hurt, angry.
If you interrupt the teacher while they are giving directions, what might be the consequence?
missing instructions, frustrating others
What is the term for being able to understand and share someone else’s feelings?
Empathy.
If you play loud music in a quiet public place, what is a potential consequence?
(e.g., people may feel annoyed, ask you to stop.)
What is it called when someone thinks before they act? (Answer: Self-regulation or Impulse control.)
Self-regulation or Impulse control.
True or False: Deleting a post erases all consequences of an unexpected behavior
False! People might still remember or screenshot it
True or False: Sitting silently and refusing to participate in a discussion is an expected behavior.
False! Participation is expected
If a friend is upset and you joke about their problem, what might be the consequence?
they may feel unheard, upset, or distance themselves from you.
What is the term for following unspoken rules in public, like waiting your turn in line? (Answer: Social norms.)
Social norms.
What is the term for changing your communication style based on your audience (e.g., talking differently to a teacher vs. a friend)?
Code-switching or Perspective-taking.
If you send a message in all caps, how might it be perceived?
aggressive, yelling, urgent.
What is the term for when someone doesn’t think about how their behavior affects others?
Social awareness deficit.
True or False: Setting boundaries in friendships is an unexpected behavior.
False! Bound
If you are at the store and someone accidentally bumps into you, what is an expected way to react?
(e.g., staying calm, saying "excuse me.")
What is the term for adjusting your behavior when you realize it’s making others uncomfortable?
Self-monitoring.
What is the term for when someone posts something online without thinking about the long-term consequences?
Impulse control issue or digital footprint.
If you get frustrated during a difficult assignment, what is an expected way to advocate for yourself?
raise your hand, ask for clarification.
If someone is giving you nonverbal cues that they’re uncomfortable, what should you do?
adjust behavior, ask if they’re okay.
True or False: If you don’t like a store employee’s tone, it’s okay to yell at them. (Answer: False! You can express concerns respectfully.)
False! You can express concerns respectfully.
True or False: Social skills can be learned and improved over time
True! We can always grow.