Taking a Timeout
Making a self assessment
What is the fourth step of the timeout skill?
Name an obstacle for change
Facilitators decide if it works
permission for something to happen or agreement to do something.
What is consent?
The highest grossing movie of all time
the number of NBA championships the Knicks have won
Using de-escalation techniques
What is the third step of the timeout skill?
The focus word of this chapter
What is change?
a court order instructing a person to desist from abusing or harassing the petitioner for a fixed period.
What is a protective order?
The capital of North Carolina
Raleigh
These people are protected by Domestic Violence laws
What are victims
Monitor your body cues and warning signs
What is the first step in the timeout skill?
This is the stage of change where we have changed the behavior and continued the change for at least 3 months
What is maintenance?
abuse or aggression that occurs in a romantic relationship or while cohabitating with another individual
What is domestic violence?
exercises that may help you refocus on the present moment to distract yourself from anxious feelings
What are grounding techniques?
An example of victim blaming
Facilitators decide if it works
What is the second step of the timeout skill?
Part of the Stages of Change that can happen at anytime
What is a relapse
Using gender roles to control a partner. (ex.. you belong in the kitchen making me dinner)
What is using gender privilege?
The barriers to change
What is denial, minimization, victim-blaming and claiming provocation?
Nonphysical behavior designed to force another to what one wants.
What is emotional abuse?
Taking a second Timeout
What happens when we come back and another argument occurs?
Name the different stages of change
Precontemplation, Contemplation, Preparation, Action, Maintenance
The 4 different types of abuse
What are physical, emotional, financial and sexual?
3 spokes of the power and control wheel
What are using coercion and threats, Using intimidation, using emotional abuse, using isolation, minimizing, denying and blaming, using children, using male privilege, using economic abuse?
3 spokes of the wheel of equality
What are non-threatening behavior, respect, trust and support, honesty and accountability, responsible parenting, shared responsibility, economic partnership?