Generational Trauma
Why Roles Develop?
Recognizing Family Roles
Traits of the Roles
How It Shows Up Today
100

Name one mental health issue that can result from generational trauma.

What is anxiety, depression, PTSD, etc.?

100

What do children in chaotic families often create to survive emotionally?

What are unspoken roles (like hero, scapegoat, etc.)?

100

What role is often seen as the “golden child” who must never fail?

What is The Hero?

100

Name one key trait of the Hero role.

What is being an overachiever or perfectionist?

100

In what ways might survival roles from childhood show up in your communication style or conflict responses today even if you're not aware of it?

What is people-pleasing, shutting down, needing to be in control, or avoiding emotions, etc.?

200

Researchers first noticed the effects of generational trauma by studying the families of survivors of what major historical event?

What is the Holocaust?

200

Why are these roles considered survival strategies?

What is they help maintain emotional stability in the family?

200

Which role absorbs blame and often carries the family’s unspoken pain?

What is the scapegoat?

200

What emotional struggle is common for the Scapegoat?

What is feeling misunderstood or ashamed?

200

Why do people often find themselves replaying family roles in adult relationships, even when those roles no longer serve them?

What is because these roles are deeply wired as coping strategies and can feel familiar, safe, or necessary until we gain awareness and make intentional changes. 

300

If a parent has unresolved trauma, how can that impact the child they are raising?

What is they can unconsciously pass down trauma-related behaviors or emotional patterns to their children?

300

What makes these roles limiting in adulthood?

What is we unconsciously replay them in relationships, work, and identity?

300

Which role brings comic relief but hides anxiety or sadness underneath?

What is the Mascot?

300

What does the Mascot avoid by using humor or chaos?

What is conflict or vulnerable emotions?

300

Why might someone struggle with safe attachment as an adult?

What is because of inherited relational trauma or neglect?

400

DOUBLE JEOPRADY!

What are some beliefs, behaviors, or emotional responses you recognize in yourself that may be linked to generational patterns?

400

What is the first step in shifting out of a survival role?

What is recognizing it with compassion?

400

What role often becomes emotionally or physically invisible to avoid stress?

What is the lost child?

400

Why might the Lost Child struggle with identity?

What is because they withdraw and go unseen? 

400

How might childhood family roles influence someone’s ability to experience joy, rest, or play as an adult?

What is these roles often prioritize survival, performance, or caretaking over authentic enjoyment. As adults, people may feel guilt, restlessness, or discomfort when slowing down or having fun, because those behaviors weren’t modeled or permitted in their early environment? (any variations may apply).

500

What are some of the common physical health impacts of generational trauma? 

What is increasing the risk of long-term health issues such as heart disease, autoimmune conditions, and diabetes?

500

How does understanding the role you took on as a child offer insight into unmet emotional needs or messages you internalized about yourself?

What is it helps reveal the coping strategies you developed and the beliefs you formed about your worth, safety, or role in relationships—many of which may still influence your behavior today? (any variation works).

500

Who takes on adult responsibilities early and becomes a fixer or emotional regulator?

What is the parentified child?

500

What does the Caretaker enable by always rescuing others?

What is dysfunction or codependency?

500

DOUBLE JEOPRADY!

How have your family roles or generational patterns shown up in your adult relationships, choices, or self-talk?

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