Who gives the best advice?
Share some advice given to you by that family member.
share a fun fact about yourself.
why did you share that?
Share a time you felt happy this week.
Scale of 1 to 10, how happy?
Where do you see yourself in 10 years?
Any jobs you are interested in?
Where do you think you'll live?
What about the future excites you or nervous about?
How should you behave at school?
what are some social rules?
How does your family handle conflict?
Explain your family's process for dealing with conflict.
Is there a difference in how each family member responds?
What are your strengths?
choose 3 and why you chose them.
Share a time you felt sad or down this week.
Scale of 1 to 10, how sad or down?
If someone gave you $1,000,000 what would you do?
is a $1,000,000 a lot of money?
How should you behave at home with your parents?
What rules come to mind?
What helps you behave well around them?
What are some common consequences given by parents?
Do they work?
what is the scariest moment you remember?
why is that?
Share a time we felt calm this week.
scale of 1 to 10, how calm?
If you weren't in school right now, what you do instead?
Would you miss school?
How should you behave during an argument?
What should you do during an argument?
Which family member is hardest to get along with?
Share some reasons for issues with this person.
Have either of you done anything to reconcile?
What is the first memory of yourself you remember?
What was significant about that memory?
Share a time we felt angry or annoyed this week.
scale of 1 to 10, how angry or annoyed?
What rules would you come up with?
Based on how your parents treat you, what would you take from them?
What should you do when you feel a big emotion?
What should you do?
what should those around you do?
What is your favorite family activity?
share some activities you do with your siblings.
What are some things we avoid now?
Why is that?
Name 3 coping skills we have discussed.
Share some coping skills that don't work.
What kinds of rewards do you like?
What kinds of punishments do you dislike the most?
What motivates you to do things?
what motivates you not to do things?