Noticing Bullying
Bullying or Conflict? Your friend keeps taking your pencils.
Conflict
What is self-esteem?
Confidence, liking yourself, etc
What Type of Bullying is this: Someone spread a rumor about you
social
What is passive communication? Give 1 example.
Caring only for other's needs and wants.
What is the first step in dealing with conflict?
Notice what zone you are in, calm down
Teasing or Bullying? Your friend calls you stupid after you do poorly on a test.
What is one way to boost your self esteem?
Positive self talk, growth mindset, etc.
What is one way of dealing with physical bullying?
Run away, stay away, talk to an adult, etc
What is aggressive communication. Give one example?
Caring only for my own needs and wants
What is the second step in dealing with peer conflict?
Figure out exactly what the problem is, and come up with some solutions.
Bullying or conflict? You tell your friend a secret. Later, you hear someone whispering that secret to someone else.
Bullying
How can compliments improve self-esteem?
They let someone know how we think they are awesome!
What is one way of dealing with cyber bullying?
Block them, report them, log off, etc
What is assertive communication?
Caring for both mine and others needs and wants
What is the third step in dealing with conflict?
Try out the solution you chose.
Telling or Tattling? Someone steps on your toe. You don't really like them, so you go to the teacher and say "They stomped on my toes on purpose!"
Tattling
What happens if someone has low self-esteem?
Low motivation, sad, depressed, etc
What is one way of dealing with verbal bullying?
Ignore it, don't give a big reaction, use and I-message, talk to an adult, use kindness and humor, etc
What are the 4 parts of an I-message
I feel…
When you…
Because…
I would like you too…
What is a good solution for this problem: Your parents keep cancelling plans last minute?
I-Message
Bullying or conflict? You and your friend have a minecraft server. You think it is funny to find your friends base a blow it up.
Depends on how your friend feels.
What is one thing you like about yourself?
Anything
What is the problem with retaliation as a way of dealing with bullying?
It escalates
Use an I-message for this situation: Your parents changed plans on you at the last minute
I feel…
When you…
Because…
I would like you too…
What is the problem and one solutions for this scenario: Your friend keeps asking to borrow your pencils. However, your friend doesn't give them back afterward.
Your friend doesn't give back your pencils
I-Message