personal space
What is “personal space”?
It is our invisible comfort bubble
What is one thing you can say to a friend to show you’re happy to see them?
multiple answers! Hi, howdy, I'm so happy to see you!, How have you been>
What does it mean when someone smiles while talking to you?
It can mean, but doesn't always mean, they are happy or agree with what you're saying.
What should you do if someone says you can’t play right now?
You can ask, "What about another time?". You can find a different friend to play with.
What should you do if a friend is feeling sad?
Ask if you can help. Ask if they need someone to talk to. Ask if you can get someone else to help them.
True or False – It’s okay to stand really close to someone when they’re talking to someone else.
False
Name one way to show kindness to a classmate.
Multiple answers!
True or False – Crossing your arms and looking away usually means someone is happy.
False. It could mean they are not very interested in what you are saying.
What is one thing you can do when you feel frustrated?
Use breathing strategies. Tell someone how you feel. Go to a calming spot. Use a fidget toy.
What does it mean to take turns during a game?
Everyone gets a chance to play!
How can you tell if someone wants more personal space?
They step away from you. They tell you. They put their hand out. They might make a face that is not a smiling face - like crunching up their eyebrows.
What is something you can say if you want to play with someone?
This game looks like fun! Can I play?
Name two things you can notice about someone’s body language to help understand how they feel.
You could describe their eyes, their face, their arms and the direction of their body..
What does your body feel like when you're starting to feel upset?
Tummy might feel upset, body tenses, you stop thinking clearly...
Explain how you can solve a small disagreement with a friend without an adult.
Stop and take a breath. Then think of all the choices you can make. Take action.
What should you do if a friend asks you to back up or move away?
Respect their words.
What can you do if your idea is different from your friend's idea during play?
You can try to understand their idea, or what they are trying to say.
What should you do if someone’s body language tells you they’re uncomfortable?
You should ask if they are okay or if they need space.
Explain how using “I feel” statements can help during a conflict.
"I feel" takes the attention off the other person and helps them to see how they made you feel.
Explain the difference between interrupting and waiting your turn to speak.
Interupting means you are talking at the same time as the other person.
Describe a situation where someone might need extra personal space, and how you can be respectful.
Multiple answers, but the answer should use the things we talked about.
What does it mean to be a good listener?
You're paying attention to the other person.
Explain how your own body language can help you make friends or help others feel safe.
You can smile at people. You can move closer to people you want to play with. You can stand close to a friend who needs help or comfort.
Give one example of using respectful words, even when you're upset.
I don't like it when...
What can you do if you don’t understand what someone is saying?
You can ask them to repeat themselves. You can ask them to show you instead.