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Your friend keeps getting in your personal space.
FOUL- Don't pop another person's space bubble!
Your friend pushes you whenever you are playing soccer.
FOUL- It's no fun to play with someone who is aggressive.
When someone comes over to your house, you ask them what they'd like to do for fun.
GOAL- You are letting them choose instead of telling them what to do.
When choosing teams, you choose the kid who is not athletic first.
GOAL- When you are not athletic, people choose you last. It is super kind to include them first.
Every time you raise your hand, a classmate rolls their eyes at you.
FOUL- You are judging your classmate and trying to make them feel bad for participating. Keep your mean thoughts to yourself.
Your friend gets mad whenever you talk with other friends.
FOUL- No one can control you. Telling someone who they can and can't talk to will result in friends moving away from you.
FOUL- You are being bossy. You need to give your friend a chance to choose an activity.
Someone approaches your soccer game and asks to play. You say "Sorry, that would make the teams uneven."
FOUL- Even if teams become uneven, it's more important to include people. Uneven teams are not important at recess.
When it's partner time, you always choose your best friend. When someone asks to join, you say "Sorry we are already working together."
FOUL- If you always choose the same person, you are not giving others a chance. It's good to get out of your comfort zone.
You see someone sitting alone. You go over and sit next to them. You ask them how their day is going.
GOAL- Someone may be too shy to join a group. They may be sad. When you make time to talk with them, it can be really helpful.
You are at a friend's house for a playdate. You decide to go hang out with their sibling instead.
FOUL- You made plans with your friend. Even if you are more interested in the sibling, you should stick with your plan.
Someone asks to join your football game and you say "sure" even though it would make the teams uneven. Everybody agrees it's not that important.
GOAL- It's so kind to focus on including others. It's more important to make people feel welcome.
When it's time to choose partners, you ask the kid who is sitting alone to be your partner.
GOAL- It can be frustrating and embarrassing to miss the basket. Being kind makes a difference.
You are playing a 2-player video game and are more skilled than your friend. You let your friend have the better character so they have a better chance of winning.
You lose the baseball game and even though you feel sad, you tell the other team, "GG."
GOAL- Sportsmanship makes you more fun to play with.
Your classmate is on the wrong page. You yell at him, "What's wrong with you?! We are on the next page!"
FOUL- There is no reason to shout. You could just help him.
You are playing football and you intercept the ball. Another kid runs in a tackles you even though it's supposed to be two hand touch.
FOUL- You are being too aggressive and could hurt someone.
Your friend loves the same video games but it's only one-player. They continue to play for the whole time without giving you a chance.
FOUL- Even if you don't die in the game, it's boring to just watch someone.
You win the football game and you jump up and down yelling, "You suck! We rule!"
FOUL- No one like sore winners. When you brag, people do not want to play with you.