Reporting/Relationships
True or False: It's always important to talk to your parents/family members about a bullying situation before telling an adult at school.
What is False - Of course you can share anything with your family, however an adult at school needs to know about bullying at the time it happens.
What is the definition of social bullying?
It could be, spreading false rumors, making fun of someone, leaving someone out of a group even ignoring someone.
True or False: Conflict among friends usually leads to bullying and can't be resolved.
What is False. Conflict among friends is a normal part of growing up and can be resolved by compromising and listening to each other.
True or False: If you see someone being bullied at school but you don't know them, you don't have to report it.
What is False Even if you don't know their names, pay attention to as much information as possible, like where did this happen and what time of day?
Also a description of the people is helpful.
True or False: It's important to be polite around grownups but it's considered silly to act too polite to friends.
What is False It's important to be polite to everyone.
With which of the following types of people can we have relationships with? A) Class Mates B) Family C) Friends D) All of the above
What is D) All the above You can end up forming a strong connection with any of these types of people, given the right circumstances.
What is a upstander ?
Someone who stands up to the bully and tells them to STOP. They could be standing up for themselves or others who are afraid to do that or don't feel comfortable.
A true friend will : A) Make sure you are always happy and try to do what you want to do. or B) be sensitive to your feelings. C) All the above.
What is B) Be sensitive to your feelings. It's not your responsibility to make sure your friends are always happy as long as your not unkind.
When first becoming friends with someone, it's okay to share A) your likes, dislikes, goals, etc., or B) your personal stuff like passwords and secrets. C) personal information about classmates
What is A) Your likes, dislikes, goals, etc. Even friends shouldn't normally know private information that doesn't effect them, but they should be able to get to know your personality and passions.
Despite what some people say, manners: A) are old fashioned, but necessary around adults or B) can still go a long way to help you make new friends.
What is B) Still go a long way in making new friends More people than not won't want to be around you if you're rude, so your chances of meeting cool new friends are way higher if you just put a little effort into minding your manners.
Loyalty is important in friendship. Which of the following is the best way to be loyal to friends. A) Stick up for your friend no matter what. B) Be loyal to friends when they are going through a rough time.
What is B) Be loyal to friends when they are going through a rough time. Friends may make bad choices, so sticking up for them no matter what is not a good idea.
What is a by stander?
Someone who watches someone get bullied and does nothing about it.
True or False: A good friend will be your friend for a lifetime.
What is False. Sometimes friends drift apart, as you grow your interests change and you may not have as much in common anymore and that's ok.
Which is an example of being a bad friend: A) Borrowing something from your friend then giving it back. B) Having too many friends. C) Reminding your friend how lucky they are to have you for a friend. D) Telling an adult their secret because you were afraid they were in danger.
What is C) Reminding your friend how lucky they are to have you for a friend. This sounds like you are more important than they are.
If you are angry at a friend but don't want to be mean, what could you do?
Walk away and talk about it after you calm down
Use your words without blaming, like;
I felt angry when you went to Sara's house to play and I wasn't invited.
What does it mean to be a friend?
What is a person who is present, loyal, honest, trustworthy, helpful, kind and someone he or she can count on. (can say any of these or more if it fits)
What is verbal bullying?
Saying mean or hurtful things to another.
It is important that you are good friends with everyone.
It is important to be kind and respectful to everyone.
You don't have to be good friends with everyone because you may have different interests and activities.
Cyber bullying is Ok if it's someone online that you don't know.
What is False: Even if you don't know them, tell your parents and block that person.
True or False: It's ok to put someone down as long as your joking around and then say "just kidding".
False: The words are still hurtful, saying "I was just joking around doesn't take those words back.
Name two different reasons why reporting bullying is important.
What is Any combination of the following: Reporting is our job and is never tattling, A teacher or principal and handle it when it happens, The bully can have consequences, it shows support for the person being bullied, Encourages good behavior.
If you have a friend strongly disagrees with you is that bullying.
No, that is conflict. Especially if they aren't raising their voice or using bad language. Disagreements are ok if you are respectful.
When somebody says the same thing over and over again, but doesn't really mean it, we can say that they're like the: A) Dog who barks B) Boy who cried wolf C) Cat who meows D) Girl who laughs
What is B) Boy who cried wolf Think what you want of the saying, but we didn't make it up, now we just use it when we can!
True or False:If you send someone a mean message or email and then delete after you sent it, they won't get hurt.
False- Deleting won't help once it's been sent. It is cyber bullying.
True or False: It's ok to bully a family member, after all they've done it to you!
What is False: Just because we are close to the person doesn't give us a right to treat them badly.