Good friends have _______ together.
Fun
True or False: It is unfair to expect a best friend to only be friends with you.
True
What can you do if your friend is feeling sad?
- listen to them
- offer support
- try to cheer them up
caring about and understanding how another person is feeling.
Rumor
Good friends use these with each other by saying "please" and "thank you".
Manners
When you want something that someone else has, and you are mad about it. This is called being __________.
Jealous
What would you do if your friend said they were mad no one wanted to play the game they wanted to play?
Offer to play the game with them or invite them to play with you.
What is the difference between empathy and sympathy?
Empathy- you feel someone's emotions with them.
Sympathy- you care about a person's situation, but you do not feel their emotions.
True or False: You should report bullying to an adult if it is happening to you or if you see it happening to someone else.
True
What are 3 good qualities in a friend?
- loyal
- honest
- trustworthy
- kind
- caring
What are 2 ways you can handle it, in a positive way, if your friend makes plans with someone else.
- be a good sport
- tell your friend that you hope they have a good time
- find something else to do
- talk about your feelings
What can you do if your friend is mad at you for something you did to them?
Apologize, say sorry
Your friend is sad because they did not make the soccer team at school, you then begin to feel sad with them because they didn’t make the team.
Is this empathy?
Yes
What type of bullying involves hurting someone's reputation and relationships over and over again?
Social Bullying
Good friends are aware of each others ___________.
Feelings
What should you do?
Your friend gets invited to play soccer with some other kids, but not you.
- ask if you can play too
- tell your friend to have fun, and that you will play with them later
- go and play with somebody else
Your friend is in a rush to get to class, and he trips and drops all of his things on the floor. What can you do to be helpful?
You can help him pick his things up.
You and your friend are playing a game, you are having a fun time, but your friend feels like the game is unfair and wants to stop playing. You see that your friend is not having fun, and decide to stop playing the game together.
Is this empathy?
Yes
What is a bystander?
People who are not directly involved with bullying.
What are 2 poor qualities that show you someone may not be a good friend to you?
- they lie
- they talk bad about other people to you
- they are intentionally mean to others
What should you not do?
Your friend gets invited to play soccer with some other kids but not you.
- Get jealous and tell your friend that you won't be friends with them anymore
- Make them feel guilty for not playing with you
- Say mean things
The secret to friendship is being a good _____________ and understanding your friend's issues.
listener
Your friend got an F on a math test, but you got a B on your math test. You feel bad that your friend got a bad grade, but you are too excited about how you did on your math test.
Is this empathy?
No (Sympathy)
What is an upstander?
Someone who stands up for someone who is being bullied