Friendship
Good friends have _______ together.
Fun
True or False: It is alright to expect a best friend to only be friends with you.
False
What can you do if your friend is feeling sad?
- listen to them
- offer support
- try to cheer them up
What is empathy?
caring about and understanding how another person is feeling.
What is it called when you say something about somebody else that is not true?
Rumor
Good friends use these with each other by saying "please" and "thank you".
Manners
When you want something that someone else has, and you are made about it. This is called being __________.
Jealous
What would you do if your friend said they were mad no one wanted to play the game they wanted to play?
Offer to play the game with them or invite them to play with you.
What is the difference between empathy and sympathy?
Empathy- you feel someone's emotions with them.
Sympathy- you care about a person's situation, but you do not feel their emotions.
True or False: You should report bullying to an adult if it is happening to you or if you see it happening to someone else.
True
What are 3 good qualities in a friend?
- loyal - helpful
- honest - good listener
- dependable - trustworthy
- kind - forgiveness
- caring - supportive
What are 2 ways you can handle it, in a positive way, if your friend makes plans with someone else.
- be a good sport
- tell your friend that you hope they have a good time
- find something else to do
- talk about your feelings
What can you do if your friend is mad at you for something you did to them?
Apologize, say sorry
Ask what they need from you
Your friend is sad because they did not make the soccer team. You then begin to feel sad with them, because they didn’t make the team.
Is this empathy?
Yes. You are caring and trying to understand how your friend is feeling.
No, it is not bullying. That is two-sided which means both students are doing the wrong thing. It is being mean and disrespectful.
Good friends are aware of each others ___________.
Feelings
Your friend gets invited to play soccer with some other kids at recess.
What should you do?
- ask if you can play too
- tell your friend to have fun, and that you will play with them later
- go and play with somebody else
Your friend is in a rush to get to class, and they trip and drop all of their things on the floor. What can you do to be helpful?
You can help them pick up their things up.
You and your friend are playing a game. You are having a fun time, but your friend feels like the game is unfair and wants to stop playing. You see that your friend is not having fun and decides to stop playing. You decide to continue to keep playing.
Is this empathy?
No.
What is a bystander?
People who are not directly involved with bullying.
What are 2 poor qualities that show you someone may not be a good friend to you?
- they lie
- don't want you to be friends with others
- they talk bad about other people to you
- they are mean to you or others
- jealous
- pressure you to do things
Your friend gets invited to play soccer with some other kids at recess.
What should you not do?
- Get jealous and tell your friend that you won't be friends with them anymore
- Make them feel guilty for not playing with you
- Say mean things
The secret to friendship is being a good _____________ and understanding your friend's issues.
listener
Your friend got an F on a math test, but you got a B on your math test. You feel bad that your friend got a bad grade, but you are too excited about how you did on your math test.
Is this empathy?
No (Sympathy)
What is an upstander?
Someone who stands up for someone who is being bullied