Vocabulary
What is a friend?
The problem you have if a friend says "We're best friends, we have to sit together at lunch"
What is rules?
Extra 100 points if you give an example of how to get unstuck.
A friendship trait that starts with S and means you help your friend when things happen in their life.
What is support?
A friend who says "I'm super nervous about having to sing by myself in front of the whole class later in music." needs this from a healthy friendship
What is support or encouragement?
Extra 100 points to share how you would support or encourage them.
The number of choices Kelso has.
What is 9?
This sticky problem happens when a friend always tries to show they are better than you.
What is competition?
The problem you have if a friend says "My art is always the best in the class"
What is competition?
Extra 100 points if you give an example of how to get unstuck.
A friendship trait that starts with E and means you try to help your friend to be their best self.
What is encourage.
Regular question!
You just sat down at the cafeteria table and you hear two other kids saying really mean things about to your friend.
Name the healthy friendship trait that will help this friend.
Loyal and Trustworthy.
Extra 100 points if you give an example of how to help this friend.
The name of the frog that learns from Kelso in Willow Pond.
What is Lily?
This sticky problem when friends try to tell you what to do and what not to do.
What is a rule?
The problem you have if you find yourself thinking "Why doesn't my friend ask me to play anymore?"
What is changes?
Extra 100 points if you give an example of how to get unstuck.
A friendship trait that starts with L and means sticking up for someone and sticking with them.
What is loyal?
Regular Question!
Ms. Thomas just passed out everyone's art projects and Brynlee is bragging about hers being the best. Alani is frustrated and hurt because she is proud of her project.
What can Alani do to get unstuck from this situation?
Take a deep breath, Walk away, Self-Talk, I-Message
Extra 100 points for giving an I-Message example.
Name all 9 of Kelo's Choices
Go to another game, talk it out, share and take turns, ignore it, walk away, tell them to stop, apologize, make a deal, wait and cool off
This sticky problem happens when someone doesn't want to be friends anymore.
What is changes?
Regular Question!
David and Audri are choreographing a dance for the school talent show and Audri keeps bossing David around, telling him what to do, and not letting David share his ideas.
What can David do to get unstuck?
I-Message, Remind Audri that they're working together, Self-Talk
Extra 100 points for giving an I-Message example.
A friendship trait that starts with T that means you keep your promises to friends, mean what you say, and don't lie.
What is trustworthy.
Regular Question!
Stephen made a rule that him and Gabby would play together at recess every day. Gabby is frustrated and uncomfortable because sometimes she wants to spend time with other friends or play something Stephen isn't interested in.
What can Gabby do to get unstuck?
I-Message, Self-Talk, Remind Stephen that she can play with other friends
Extra 100 points for giving an I-Message example.
The pond where Lily and Kelso live.
What is Willow Pond?
A job where you talk to kids about being good people, kind friends, what they want to be when they grow up, how they're doing in school, and make sure they're safe at home and school.
Regular Question!
Last year, Noel and Hunter loved hunting for cool rocks at recess. This year, Hunter is playing football outside of school and plays football at recess too. Noel misses that time with her friend and wants to say something to Hunter.
What I-Message could Noel say to Hunter?
Hunter, I feel ____ when ____. Can you_____?
A friendship trait that means you trust that your friends will like you just the way you are.
What is being yourself?
Regular Question!
Natalie and Greyson were great friends last year, but Greyson wants to spend less time with Natalie after a few situations where she wanted to do things that made Greyson uncomfortable.
How should Greyson interact with Natalie when they are no longer friends?
Still be polite! Even if you're not friends!
Extra 200 points: What should Natalie do if she wants to talk to Greyson about their friendship?
This third choice on the Kelso's Choice wheel is missing on the KC Wheel
What is Share and Take Turns.