Friendship
Bullying
Expected Behaviors
Best Compliments
Coping Skills
100

I notice that my friend is having a bad day... What should I do?

Ask them if they're okay/cheer them up.

100

Grady called me a "loser"

Pretend to not care, shrug, say, "so what?" and walk away
100
Picking your nose; expected or unexpected in class?

Unexpected!

100

Is, "I like your hair" an ideal compliment? 

It's kind, but personality-based compliments are even better!

100

"No ice cream after school!"

Take a deep breath.

Let's be flexible! "It's okay, maybe tomorrow".

200

Tommy wants to hangout with me, but so does Sally... What do I do?

Ask if we could all hangout, or make time for each friend.

200

Joey is nice to me, but mean to Mary... What should I do?

Think about if you want to be friends with someone unkind; Consider being an upstander for Mary. 

200

You walk up to a stranger and say "Did you know that pigs are the cleanest animals on the farm?"; Expected or unexpected?

Unexpected!

200

Is, "you're so funny?" an great compliment? 

Yes! What a great personality compliment.

200

It's so loud in here!

Cover your ears/ask to take a break/kindly ask others to speak quietly

300

How do you learn if someone has similar interests as you?

Ask them "WH" questions

300

What kind of "aggression" is inviting Rosie to my birthday in front of Jessie?

Relational aggression. 

300

Asking a close friend if they'd like to come over after school; Expected or unexpected? 

Expected!

300

Is "you are wearing a dress" a good compliment?

Hm... Unexpected because it's more of a statement.

300

What is a good way to get your body calm?

Grounding exercises/yoga/deep breathing
400

Rosie invited me on a playdate but not to her slumber party. What tier of friendship is she?

"New Friend"/Acquaintance

400

Emma tells me that Carol has been bumping into her every single day at lunch. 

Ignoring is not working; Reach out to a trusted adult!

400

Your teacher just assigned you a new seat, away from your best friend to make room for the new girl. You move seats and say, "hi!" to the new girl; Expected or unexpected?

Expected!

400

Is, "you're so good at science!" a good compliment?

It's great because it's about a talent!

400

Tommy forgot to bring me the brownie that he promised he would today...

Let's be flexible and compassionate! "It's okay, maybe you can bring it tomorrow". 

500

When Jim wants to tell you about something special, what can you do to help him know that you care?

Whole body listening and following up with "WH" questions

500

Rufus told me that if I tell a teacher he took my lunch that he will punch me. What kind of aggression is this? 

Verbal aggression; Time to tell a trusted adult!

500

Your friend is telling you something about cows that you already know, and you're dying to say, "I already know that!"; What is the expected response?

Politely wait until he is finished, and ask a follow-up question or offer a different fact about cows.

500

You make great armpit farts! Good compliment?

Some people might find that flattering, but it's a bit unexpected. 

500

I had a lonnnnng day and need to decompress. 

Take a quiet break, listen to music, do something fun.

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