Do's and Dont's
Definitions
Manners
Frienemies
Empathy
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What is one thing that is very important to do after you hurt someone's feelings?
Apologize
100
Define bullying
What is Repeated, targeted behavior that happens to someone and makes them feel hurt/sad/mad.
100
Why is farting in class not using good manners?
What is That is a private event and you should ask to use the restroom or you should apologize if it is an accident.
100
What is a 'frienemie'?
What is Someone who is maybe kind to you sometimes but then does a lot really rude/hurtful things.
100
The ability to share and understand someone's feelings
What is Empathy
200
When you are playing a game at recess and someone who doesn't usually play with you comes up and asks to join. What should you do? Why?
What is You should absolutely let them join! There is NO game at recess where more people can't join in!
200
Kindness
What is Showing someone you care about them and care about their feelings.
200
When you have a friend over to your house should you do things that you want to do or should you ask your friend what they want to do? Why?
What is You should ask them first because they are a guest. I bet you can find a compromise if you want to play different things.
200
Friend or Frienemie: Someone asks you to play a game with them at recess. You've never really played with them before you think they are nice and playing the game sounds fun!
What is Friend
200
When you notice that someone isn't playing with anyone at recess what can you do?
What is Ask them to play with you, sit down with them and talk.
300
When a new student moves into your class. Why should you not just ignore them and hope they make friends with someone else?
What is What if everyone did that? Step-up and be a kind face to someone new.
300
Accepting someone's apology and moving on.
What is Forgiving
300
Is it a good idea to mix all your food together at lunch and make it look gross/weird? Why?
What is It might seem funny but it also might gross some people out. When you are eating at a big table of people its a good idea to use your manners.
300
Friend or Frienemie: You tell everyone on your kickball team to let a certain person join your team because they aren't a good player. When that person comes to join your team you smile at them and say, 'sorry! our team is full.'
What is Frienemie. Its not ok/fair to tell everyone else that one person isn't good at something. Even though you didn't tell that to the person's face it doesn't make it ok.
300
Your friend feels embarrassed because he isn't very good at kickball and doesn't want to play. You love kickball and want to play but you also want to play with your friend. What can you do?
What is Play something different, give them a pep talk, agree to play together at the next recess, ask them if you can help them get better at kickball
400
When you are sitting at the lunch table why is it not a good idea to tell someone that you are saving the seat for someone else?
What is Its rude, it can hurt their feelings. They probably wanted to sit by you because they want to be your friend.
400
When you and your friend try to figure out a solution to your problem!
What is Problem Solving
400
Someone gets out in kickball and you laugh at them. Why is that an example of bad manners? What could you do instead.
What is It is mean to laugh at others. You don't need to tear others down to feel better about your self!
400
Friend or Frienemie: Jimbob tells his friend, John, that Peter (another 4th grader) smells like disguting unswashed feet. John tells Jimbob that that was a mean thing to say. Jimbob says that its not mean because it's the truth.
What is Frienemie! You can't say everything that pops into your head- it can be hurtful and you never know who might overhear.
400
Someone falls down during PE and your best friend laughs at her. What should you do?
What is Tell them to stop, help the person up.
500
Why is it rude to laugh when someone gets an answer wrong in class?
What is No one is perfect. If you laugh at others, what might happen to you if you get one wrong? And, its just not kind to laugh at others.
500
Acceptance
What is When you like a friend for who they are and you don't try to change them.
500
Someone at your birthday party gives you a present but its something you already own or something you don't really like. How do you handle it?
What is Just tell them thank you and move on!
500
Friend or Frienemie: Your best friend tells you a secret and then you go tell another one of your friends. Your friend found out that you told her secret and now she is ignoring you.
What is Friend. This kind of stuff happens all the time with friends but we have to learn how to handle it! Ignoring people, even when you are upset with them is NOT an appropriate way to handle the situation. If you are mad at someone you can simply say, "I am upset right now and need some space, please."
500
You hear that your friend is getting bullied on social media (facebook, musicly, instagram, or something like that). What do you do?
What is Get an adults help.
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