Definitions of Qualities
Keeping truthfulness; being truthful
Honest
Do or don't, stick up for your friends.
Do! In a friendship, it's important for you to have each others backs and make each other feel supported.
True or false, a good friend sacrifices their own happiness 24/7 for the other
False, in any relationship sacrificing your own happiness all the time results in an unbalance of power. Instead, both people should feel happier having a friend.
You introduce your best friend to someone else, and now they aren't including you in their plans. What do you do?
Maintain a relationship with them both. Maybe have a conversation about how it makes you feel.
Able to be relied on; dependable; someone you can believe in
Do or don't, talk behind their back
Don't! Feelings will be hurt and trust might be lost.
True or false, good friends can disagree without hurting each other
True! Good friends should be able to have an understanding of both views (and convey it) without being rude or unmannerly
People are peer-pressuring your friend to do something they could get in trouble for. Your friend seems unsure of what to do. What do you do?
You could step in and try to talk your friend out of it. You can let them know they can make their own decisions and encourage them to make good choices and don't do anything they'll regret.
Providing encouragement or emotional help
Supportive
Do or don't, stop your friend from having other friends.
Don't, in a healthy friendship, there can be other friendships apart from you two
True or false, hanging with you friends should be a memorable experience, and not feel like a task.
True, you should want to spend time with your friends
You become friends with someone new, but it seems that everyone is being rude to you for it. What do you do?
Remind yourself it doesn't matter what other people think. If you like being friends with that new person, then don't let others change that. Encourage other people to be nice to the new friend.
Giving someone positive support or confidence
Do or don't, offer a helping hand to your friend whenever they made need one
Do, support and having someone to help you through the tough times is really important.
True or false, arguing is okay
True- to a certain extent. In any kind of relationship, arguments are prone to happen. Not everyone has the same perspective of things.
You and your friend have been close for many years. Your friend has a new best friend and has been spending almost all of their time with them and ignoring you. This upsets you because you miss hanging with your friend. What do you do?
Have a conversation about how you've been feeling. Make sure your friend is aware of these feelings and try to come to a solution, including that the friendship may need a break.
Capable of stopping an angry or resentful feeling towards someone
Forgiving
Do or don't, tell a friend if false rumors are being spread about them
Do! Your friend deserves to know the truth, and be able to try and stop others from telling lies about them.
True or false, It's a sign someone is being controlling if they tell you who to hang out with or who to talk to.
True, If your friend is telling you who to talk to and who not to talk to, they are trying to control you. This is a sign of an unhealthy friendship.
You borrow a hoodie from a friend and accidentally get putty on it--it's ruined. What do you do?
Be honest and own up to it. Apologize and offer to make it right by getting them a new hoodie.