Etiquette and Manners
How to Be a Great Dinner Party Guest
Fast Food Dining
Conversation for Mealtime
Chivalry-Becoming a Gentleman
100
Each day treat every person with consideration, respect, and honesty.
What is etiquette?
100
You are running late to a dinner at someone's house. Text to the host saying exactly how late you are running.
What is should I come on time? Your host is trying to keep multiple things hot on the stove & needs to know when to move guests to the table.
100
If you receive a text, ignore it until after the meal is over. It is rude to communicate electronically during a meal, even if it is casual.
What is turn your cell phone to vibrate or turn it off.
100
Spend more time listening than talking. Most people enjoy sharing their experiences and hearing about yours.
What is back-and-forth conversation?
100
When walking on a sidewalk, place yourself on the outside, closest to traffic or puddles. This is a sign of protection.
What is chivalry tip for a gentlemen walking with a lady?
200
Manners and etiquette show that you are aware of how your actions affect those around you. It behooves you to exercise etiquette. You will build more friendships! Your relatives will enjoy you more! Employers will want to hire you!
What is a way to build successful relationships?
200
Always ask if you can bring something or bring the host a gift such as a fancy bottle of jam or a pound of good coffee. Bring flowers in a vase so that the host does not have extra work while greeting guests.
What is never show up empty-handed.
200
Never stab food on someone else's plate. If the other person would like to share with you, it is his prerogative to make the offer. Transfer the food to your plate and then feel free to indulge.
What is the proper way to share food?
200
If you can’t get a word in edgewise because someone keeps on talking he/she is considered impolite.
What is a boor (lacks education, refinement, social graces)?
200
Complimenting the cook, writing thank you notes, helping your Mom or sister carry heavy objects, escorting your Mom (offering your arm) into an event, spend a day with your Mom catering to her preferences.
What is practicing chivalry at home?
300
Common little gestures that we perform out of respect for others such as saying thank-you, holding a door open, or letting someone go ahead in a long long make a difference in our day-to-day interactions.
What is a common courtesy?
300
What is--- Show an INTEREST in the food and tell the host what you like about it Offer to HELP throughout the meal (pour water, clear plates, scoop ice cream
What should a great guest do during dinner?
300
When you finish a meal at a restaurant, it is okay to chat for a few minutes, but remember that the server depends on tips to earn a living, and someone else may be waiting for the table.
What is the right time to leave a restaurant?
300
Food, fashion, and music are usually a good choice.
What is a safe, pleasant topic during a meal?
300
"For the past 10 years there's been a culture of celebrating yourself. Learning that it's not all about you is a dying art. Kids show caring by lending an ear."
What is listening to others?
400
Manners are general guidelines for behavior where as etiquette is specific rules of conduct.
What is the difference between manners and etiquette?
400
Be witty and fascinating, have pleasant conversations, and never exclude anyone.
What is the job of a dinner guest?
400
Maintain a moderate tone during conversation; never yell.
What is the proper volume for conversations?
400
Gossip, conflict, health/medical problems, gory events, politics, or religion are on the list.
What is unpleasant topics to avoid at the table?
400
Pull out her chair at the table. Make sure she and others are comfortable before taking your own seat.
What is a way to show chivalry at the table?
500
1. Chew with your mouth closed. 2. Avoid slurping, smacking, blowing your nose, or other gross noises. 3. Instead of reaching across the table for something, ask for it to be passed to you.
What is table manners?
500
A good guest never outstays their welcome (no matter how well you know the host).
What is the golden rule of being a good guest?
500
The last thing you want to do is suppress someone’s appetite by saying words that are inappropriate or gross. Something lighthearted that isn’t controversial is an ideal topic during a meal.
What is pleasant table conversation?
500
Most people can commiserate about the price of almost anything, but it’s never polite to ask someone what he or she paid for a car, house, outfit, or anything personal. Be careful when discussing anything money related, particularly at the dinner table. You might cause indigestion.
What is a topic to avoid at the dinner table?
500
When entering and exiting a building, open and hold the door for others and let them enter first. This is respectful and caring.
What is a simple act of chivalry for gentlemen?
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