5 love languages
What is Physical Touch
Whatever you want, I don't care, It is up to you.
What is Passive Communication style.
Look at the person talking, not at your phone or the television
What are signs you are listening.
"And another thing, you never listen to me."
What is not sticking to one subject at a time.
Name 3 times when a safety plan can be used
What is When I am angry, When I have thoughts of hurting myself, When I feel sad.
This love language thrives when someone listens to them, plays board games with them, or just spend time with them.
What is Quality Time.
That's fine with me, walking off after agreeing, stomping feet, rolling eyes, arms crossed but says everything is fine.
What is Passive-agressive communication
When you can repeat back what you heard, not word for word, but let them know you heard what was said.
"You're so stupid" "loser" "The cat can do it better than you."
What is breaking the rule."No name calling, or put downs."
What are 2 triggers that may cause you to act out.
There are many different answers.
I Love You,
Great Job!
You are special to me?
What are Words of Affirmation.
Yells to get their way, calls others names or makes fun of others to get their way, bullies others, does not consider others needs or wants
What is aggressive communicators.
Hearing what someone said and stating what you hear. Even if you don't agree with it.
What is validating.
Walking away when someone has something to talk about or shutting down and not talking at all.
What is "Stonewalling".
Listen to music, walk, breathing exercises, go somewhere quiet, take a shower.
What are some good coping skills.
Washing someone's car, Helping with someone's homework, Doing someone's laundry
What is Acts of Service
Says things like, "I need", "What do you think?", willing to compromise when possible, listens to others and hears what they are saying.
What is assertive communicators.
Saying things like, "That's silly" or "Why would you think that?" or "That sounds like something you would say."
What is not validating or not taking what is said seriously. It also shows the other person that you don't respect them as an equal.
"I need you to take the kids to school today because I am not feeling well."
"I think that I deserve a later curfew because I have shown that I can be responsible."
What it taking responsibility for your words. Or using "I" statements.
Name two people you can talk to when you are upset that can help you.
Answers vary.
Giving someone a handmade card, Bringing them lunch at school, Giving them a gift that they asked for to make them feel special.
What is Receiving Gifts.
The style of communication taught in FFT.
What is assertive communication.
Keep it short and sweet, ten words or less. Get to the point without lecturing.
Calling time, or saying a code word.
What is taking a time out to avoid doing something like yelling, blaming, or hitting.
Talk to my child, Let them go outside or to their room to be alone, do not follow my child when he/she is upset.
What are things parents can to for a child in crisis.