Discussion
What are common signs of disrespect that you see in your peers here at school?
Talking over each/bumping words, name-calling, yelling, profanity, etc.
You should help out by doing __________ at home.
Chores
You say this when an item is given to you.
Don't ______________ people or make fun of them.
hurt
Name 3 behaviors that are not acceptable in class.
Talking out, disrespect, poor peers, not following directions, limit testing, etc.
Why could it be harder for a person to respect someone that is different from them?
They have a harder time empathizing (bonus points if you explain why!)
To help make home a better place for you to be, you should take care of your _____________.
Responsibilities
List 3 ways you can show that you respect yourself.
Setting and FOLLOWING THROUGH on boundaries, keeping your space clean, staying active, using positive affirmations and words toward yourself, etc.
___________ to others when they speak.
Listen, do not talk
List 3 positive/appropriate ways to respond to a teacher who is correcting your behavior. (HINT: social steps!!!!!!!!)
bringing up a concern appropriately (BONUS POINTS for the person who can model this correctly), asking for the teacher's perspective, asking to share your perspective, using "I" statements, avoiding disrespectful language, etc.
Do you have to like someone to be respectful to them, why or why not?
No, because it demonstrates good values to be respectful to everyone. We don't know what others are going through.
When people are in the middle of a conversation, the polite thing to do before talking is this.
Ask if you may interrupt.
When you break something that is not yours, what should you do?
Tell the person. (BONUS POINT OPPORTUNITY: this shows _____ for others)
__________ other people's opinions.
Respect
List 3 ways to show respect to others during a classroom discussion.
Do not speak while others are speaking, provide positive feedback (verbal or non-verbal), etc.
Do you think it is okay to make fun or or insult people even if they don't hear it? Explain...
No, it is not okay. It can hurt relationships with others, cause a negative atmosphere, and lead to misunderstandings and/or conflicts.
List three disrespectful things that could be done at home.
**THIS MAY LOOK DIFFERENT FOR EACH FAMILY ** Speaking with disrespect (e.g., tone of voice, profanity), not following rules, not cleaning after yourself, not eating with your family, etc.
List 3 negative consequence of gossiping.
Hurting others' feelings, negative representation of yourself (aka: bad reputation), lack of trust, miscommunication, negative environment, etc.
Don't ___________ others into doing something they don't want to do.
Pressure
List 3 ways to show respect to your school.
Do not "talk smack" about school while on school grounds, participate in school activities, use respectful language with classmates and staff, etc.
List 3 benefits of being respectful to others.
Higher self-esteem, more positive reputation, positive environment, harmonious society, decreased feelings of stress, improved communication, etc.
List three things that you can do at home to show respect.
Use respectful language (e.g., no curse words), show appreciation (e.g., completing a chore without being told), completing chores, following rules/directions, etc.
How does respect relate to the quality of your character?
It is a fundamental aspect of good character because it reflects qualities of integrity, empathy, accountability, compassion, tolerance, trustworthiness, responsibility, courage, and consistency. (AKA: mastery, good-belonging, independence, and mastery). When respect is an integral part of your character, it contributes to your overall moral and ethical standing in society and helps build positive relationships with others.
How does one's culture impact the way they interact with others?
Differences in norms, such as social cues, tones of voice, eye contact, gender roles, communication styles, etc.
What is the golden rule?