About the staff
What staff has 4 legs?
Stella
Number 1
Stop and think of immediate consequences
Explain Denial
Red-When the gaslighter tells the victim an event never happened
This person may aim for perfection and will often feel high levels or anxiety. They will often times feel that they could've done better.
The Perfectionist
What is Internal stress?
Stress from your thoughts or worries about things
What is my dogs name?
Cora
Number 4
Examination of your conscious
Explain Balance
Green flag, spending time together and apart
This person will turn down help as they often times feel that they need to prove their worth as an individual.
The Soloist
What is External Stress?
Stress about things that happening.
*Moving, Big Test*
Who has been at NWJ the longest?
Jeff
Explain Number 5
Do not over think the things you have done wrong. Use it as a learning moment and move on
Explain Threats
Red- The gaslighter will threaten a negative outcome.. "If you cant see things my way the relationship is over"
This person will often times excel in all areas mainly because they push themselves to hard. Will work until they burn out.
The Superhero
1 time in your life that you have felt let down by a parent or guardian?
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Who writes in cursive on the careplans?
Jeff
Explain number 3
Think before you do something, plan what could happen and if the choice is wrong think about how you can make a better choice next time.
Explain Minimization
Red- The gaslighter makes light of a serious or bad situation
This person will be able to master a new skill easily and quickly, they will often feel ashamed and weak if they cannot do so.
The Natural Genius
Explain Humility
Being humble, not thinking you are better than someone else.
Justice
Say the Deterrents backwards
5.4.3.2.1
Explain- Communication
Green- You communicate your own needs and wishes while still listening and respecting your partners.
This person maybe a perfectionist, they will not feel satisfied until they finish something or know everything about a topic.
The Expert
What's one of your biggest stressors in life?
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