The analogy for a rumor that we demonstrated in group that shows once a rumor is out, it can't be taken back
What is the toothpaste analogy?
Goal is to harm, hurt, or humiliate; the behavior continues after the person realizes it is hurtful; the behavior is continued and repeated
What is bullying?
Saying "nice shot", "good move", giving a high five or thumbs up to another player
What is praising other players?
Phone calls, Texting, Instant messages, Gaming chats, Email, Voicemail, DMs, Comments on social media
What are examples of electronic communication?
The type of joke that makes fun of another person
What is an insult joke?
Can be true or false, often more casual, is not always done with a bad intention, and is sometimes considered entertaining or for used for social purposes.
What is gossip?
Disagreement or argument in which both sides expresses their views and the harmful behavior is typically changed when the person realizes it is hurting someone.
What is social conflict?
The most important goal when you are playing games and sports with friends.
What is that everyone has fun/a good time?
When someone disguises themselves as someone else online to seduce and often take advantage of another person
What is catfishing?
A joke that only a few people would understand and are specific to some context and shared by certain people
What is an inside joke?
Words that make up the THINK acronym for when deciding whether to participate in gossip.
What is True, Helpful, Inspiring, Necessary, Kind?
Using technology to bully, like sending hurtful messages, posting harmful pictures or comments, or sharing private chats.
What is cyberbullying?
Bragging, cheering for themselves, mocking the other players that lost
What is not winning with humility?
What are steps/guidelines for leaving a voicemail?
Know your audience, consider whether it's the right time and place, avoid insult jokes, avoid dirty jokes, avoid exaggeration or lies
What are strategies/guidelines for appropriate humor?
The analogy for a rumor that sparks quickly, spreads uncontrollably, and causes widespread destruction.
What is wildfire?
Action-oriented bullying that uses body to harm others (e.g., hitting, kicking, slapping, destroying personal belongings)
What is physical bullying?
Mel had friends over to play video games at their house. They made sure each person got an equal amount of time playing with the controllers. What good sportsmanship strategy were they using?
What is share and take turns?
When someone has your personal or sensitive information and threatens you if you don't give them money or other things they ask for
What is extortion?
Not laughing at all, giving a courtesy laugh, laughing at you, and laughing with you
What are examples of humor feedback?
Thinking about the friendship circles from our first group session, which circle(s) would be the most risky to gossip with?
What are strangers and acquaintances?
(Casual friends could also be risky)
Avoid the bully, get help from an adult, don't provoke/fuel the bully, ignore when safe
What are strategies for handling bullying?
Anna kept telling the friends she was playing a board game with which moves they should make next and how to play the game. Which strategy of good sportsmanship was she not using?
Never agree to meet up with a stranger from the internet, use privacy settings to keep your account secure, block or report people if they send things that make you feel uncomfortable or inappropriate
What are strategies for staying safe online?
When someone laughs but doesn't actually find what you said funny.
What is a courtesy laugh?