Empathy
A classmate looks upset because they didn’t get picked for a game. What’s the best way to respond?
A. Ignore them—they’ll get over it.
B. Say, “You should try harder next time.”
C. Offer to play a different game with them later.
D. Tell them they’re overreacting.
C. Offer to play a different game with them later.
During a class discussion, a classmate shares their opinion. What should you do?
A. Look at them and nod while they’re talking.
B. Interrupt to share your own opinion.
C. Whisper to your friend while they’re talking.
D. Ignore them if you disagree.
A. Look at them and nod while they’re talking.
Your teacher helps you understand a tough math problem. What’s a good way to show gratitude?
A. Say, “I already kind of knew that.”
B. Say, “Thanks for explaining that—it really helped me!”
C. Leave without saying anything.
D. Tell your classmates how easy the problem was.
B. Say, “Thanks for explaining that—it really helped me!”
You worked really hard on a project, and the teacher praises you. How can you respond?
A. “It wasn’t that great.”
B. “Thanks! I’m proud of how much effort I put in.”
C. “I know—it was easy.”
D. “Can you give me extra credit for it?”
B. “Thanks! I’m proud of how much effort I put in.”
Your friend doesn’t want to play the game you like. What’s a good way to respond?
A. “Why don’t you ever want to do what I want?”
B. “Okay, let’s find a game we both like!”
C. “Fine, but we’ll only play my game next time.”
D. “If you don’t want to play, I’ll just play alone.”
B. “Okay, let’s find a game we both like!”
Your friend’s pet passed away, and they’re feeling very sad. What can you do?
A. Change the subject to something happier.
B. Say, “That’s so sad. I’m here if you want to talk.”
C. Avoid them because you don’t know what to say.
D. Tell them they can get another pet.
B. Say, “That’s so sad. I’m here if you want to talk.”
A friend is telling you about their weekend. How can you show you’re listening?
A. Look at them and ask questions about their story.
B. Keep checking your phone while they talk.
C. Wait until they finish and change the topic.
D. Repeat their story word-for-word back to them.
A. Look at them and ask questions about their story.
A friend helps you carry your books to class. What can you say?
A. “You didn’t have to do that.”
B. “Thanks so much for helping me out!”
C. “I could have done it myself.”
D. Nothing at all.
B. “Thanks so much for helping me out!”
You finally solve a difficult puzzle after trying for days. What’s a good way to share your success?
A. Tell a friend, “I did it! I feel so accomplished!”
B. Say, “It’s about time someone noticed my skills.”
C. Don’t say anything—it’s not a big deal.
D. Brag about how you’re better than everyone else.
A. Tell a friend, “I did it! I feel so accomplished!”
A classmate is nervous about giving a presentation. How can you show understanding?
A. “There’s no reason to be nervous—you’ll do fine.”
B. “I get why you’re nervous. Can I help you practice?”
C. “I never get nervous, so I don’t know how to help you.”
D. “Just pretend no one is watching.”
B. “I get why you’re nervous. Can I help you practice?”
A classmate looks upset after recess. You overhear them say they didn’t get picked for a game. What can you do or say to show you care?
EXAMPLE: "I noticed you look upset. Do you want to talk about it? I’m here to listen."
How can you show active listening during a conversation?
A. Look at the person, nod, and ask questions about what they’re saying.
B. Look around the room and wait until they’re done talking.
C. Check your phone while they speak.
D. Interrupt them to say what you think.
B. Look around the room and wait until they’re done talking.
A friend shares their snack with you because you forgot yours. What can you do or say to show you’re grateful?
EXAMPLE: "Thank you so much for sharing with me. That was really kind of you."
What does it mean to feel "pride"?
A. Being happy and confident about something you’ve done well
B. Bragging about being better than others
C. Ignoring your accomplishments
D. Feeling embarrassed about your hard work
A. Being happy and confident about something you’ve done well
Your friend thinks a game is boring, but you think it’s fun. How can you try to understand their point of view?
EXAMPLE: "I get why you might think it’s boring. What game would you like to play instead?"
What does "empathy" mean?
A. Feeling sorry for someone without understanding them
B. Understanding and sharing someone else’s feelings
C. Telling someone how they should feel
D. Ignoring someone’s emotions
B. Understanding and sharing someone else’s feelings
A friend is excitedly telling you about their weekend, but someone else keeps interrupting. How do you show your friend that you’re listening?
EXAMPLE: "That sounds so fun! What was your favorite part?"
Your teacher stays after school to help you with homework. How can you thank them in a meaningful way?
EXAMPLE: "Thank you for taking the time to help me! It really made a difference."
You’ve been practicing a skill, like playing an instrument or solving math problems, and you finally succeed. How do you share your achievement with others?
EXAMPLE: "I’m so excited I finally got it! I’ve been practicing for a long time."
A classmate says they’re nervous about giving a presentation. You’ve never felt nervous about speaking in front of the class. How can you support them?
EXAMPLE: I can see why you might feel nervous. Is there something I can do to help, like practicing with you?
A new student in class seems lonely and doesn’t have anyone to sit with during lunch. What can you do to help them feel welcome?
EXAMPLE: "Hi, would you like to sit with us? I’d love to get to know you!"
Definition: What is “active listening”?
A. Interrupting someone to share your own ideas
B. Listening carefully and showing you understand what they’re saying
C. Pretending to listen but thinking about something else
D. Only listening when it’s something interesting to you
B. Listening carefully and showing you understand what they’re saying
What does "gratitude" mean?
A. Feeling annoyed when someone helps you
B. Being thankful and showing appreciation for something
C. Ignoring the things others do for you
D. Asking for more even after someone gives you something
B. Being thankful and showing appreciation for something
A teammate in your sports game says, “You did awesome out there!” How do you acknowledge their compliment and feel proud of your effort?
EXAMPLE: "Thanks! I’ve been working hard on that. You played really well too!"
What does “perspective-taking” mean?
A. Only caring about your own point of view
B. Trying to understand how someone else sees a situation
C. Convincing someone to agree with your opinion
D. Ignoring what others think or feel
B. Trying to understand how someone else sees a situation