T/F Win-Lose can occur when someone becomes obsessed with another person in a negative way
False
100
T/F of you are trapped in an abusive relationship, you are deep into Lose-Win
True
100
T/F This is the best habit
False
100
Marie wants to take the car to a big game, but her mom needs it to get groceries. Marie complains that her friends always have to pick her up and it is embarrassing for her. Her mom says that Marie keeps saying that she is wanting food in the house but she needs to go the grocery store to get it. Marie's mom finally gives in and gives her the keys to the car. What attitude is this?
Win-Lose
200
Victoria and Callista are best friends. Victoria wants to go to the movies but Callista wants to go out to dinner. They get in a big fight. How can you make this a Win-Win situation?
Ex: They decide that they are going to rent a movie and get take out and bring the movie and dinner home.
200
T/F Giving into peer pressure is Win-Lose
False
200
T/F With a Lose-Win attitude you will be setting low expectations and compromising you standards again and again
True
200
T/F An example of Lose-Lose is two friends apply to the same college. One of them got in but the other one didn't. The one that got into the college is super excited but the other one is very disappointed.
False
200
This attitude says, "If I'm going down, then you're going down with me, sucker." After all, misery enjoys company. War is a great example of this attitude. Whoever kills the most people wins the war. What attitude is this?
Lose-Lose
300
How can you show sportsmanship?
Ex: Compliment the opposing team after the game even if you lose
300
T/F In the end, Win-Lose will most likely backfire. You may end up on the top of the totem pole. But you will end up there alone and without any friends.
True
300
Give me an example of Lose-Win
Answers may vary
300
Give an example of Lose-Lose
Ex: Henry and Jacob are sitting next to each other during a test. Jacob didn't study but Henry did. Jacob asks Henry for the answers. Henry gives the answers to him and the teacher catches them. They end up getting suspended. This is a Lose-Lose situation because they both ended up getting in trouble.
300
Think of a person who you feel is a model of Win-Win. What is it about this person you admire?
Ex: My mom because she looks at the bright side in every situation
400
T/F Having a positive attitude towards life is part of Win-Win
True
400
T/F Win-Lose is about making the other person in the situation happy
False
400
T/F Lose-Win is weak and it's easy to get stepped on. It's natural to be the nice guy and give in. It's effortless to let your parents have their way instead of you sharing your feelings with them.
True
400
T/F Lose-Lose helps you become a better person in life
False
400
Think about your general attitude towards life. Is it based on Win-Lose, Lose-Win, Win-Win or Lose-Lose?
Answers can vary
500
T/F Win-Win is not a very good attitude to have going through life
False
500
T/F The many faces of this attitude are:
*Using other people, emotionally and or physically, for your own considerate purposes
*Not trying to get ahead at the expense of others
*Saying kind things about another person
*Becoming very happy when something good happens to someone close to you
False
500
T/F Lose-Win is like when your mom is saying something to you that you know is not right at all but you don't want to argue with her so you just agree with her
True
500
T/F An example of Lose-Lose is Molly and Mary go to the movies. They both want to see different movies. Molly and Mary cannot decide who gets to pick the movie. Finally, Mary gets tired if arguing and finally gives in. She lets Molly pick the movie.
False
500
Sara and Maddie both have to use the computer for a project. They can't decide who will use the computer first. How can you turn this into a Win-Win situation?
Ex: They flip a coin to see who goes first and then they each get 20 minutes and switch off