5 Poor Listening Styles
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T.V. and Movie friends
5 Habits
Conversation Beliefs
100

You mind is wandering off and you are consumed by your own thoughts,

What is "Spacing Out"

100

Act that is performed by two people when greeting one another.

What is a handshake

100
Batman's sidekick.
Who is Robin
100

Habit 1 is __________

What is Be Proactive

100

I see others as ______ partners in conversation.

What is "equal"

200

You are listening but seeing everything from your own point of view. You might say, “I know exactly how you feel.”

What is "self-centered listening"

200

Fill in the blank: “Seek first to ________, then to be ________.”

What is understand; understood 

200

This is Spongebob's best friend in "Spongebob Squarepants"

Who is Patrick

200

Habit 2 is _____________

What is Begin with the End in Mind

200

I want to hear what others have to ____.

What is "say"

300

You are paying attention to the words, but you are not in tune to the emotions, body language, or tone of voice.

What is "word listening"

300

the immediate judgment or opinion a person forms about someone or something upon their initial encounter

What is a first impression

300

Toy Story Main Character Friends

Who is Buzz Lightyear and Woody

300

Habit 3 is ____________

What is Put First Things First

300

Conversations should be ______-__________.

(not back and forth)

What is "Life-Giving"

400

You are not paying much attention to the person but you are acting like you are. You might nod your head, say “yeah”, “cool”, “sounds great”.

What is "Pretend Listening"

400

The process where two or more people exchange information, feelings, and meaning through verbal and non-verbal messages, creating understanding between them

What is Interpersonal Communication

400

Two Detectives from Britain

Who are Holmes and Watson

400

Habit 4 is _______________

What is Think WIN-WIN

400

Our conversations should be _____ and _____.

What is "back and forth"

500

You only pay attention to the part of the conversation that interests you.

What is "selective listening"

500

__________ is central to moving forward with everyone on the same page

What is Communication

500

Two hobbits who go on quests together in Lord of the Rings

Who is Frodo and Sam

500
Habit 5 is ___________

What is Seek first to Understand, then to be Understood

500

I believe others should have a lot of _______ in conversations.

What is "ownership" or "autonomy" 

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