Bad listening skills
Good listening skills
Real life examples
100
When someone is talking to us and we are not paying attention
Spacing out
100
this is when we give advise drawn from our own experience
Advising
100
Real life example of pretend listening
Pretends on answer
200
We are not paying much attention but we pretend we are, but we still pay a little of attention
Pretend listnening
200
think like a mirror it doesn't judge give advice but it reflects
Third, mirroring
200
Realize example of judging
Depends on answer
300
When we pay attention to the part of the conversation that interests us and nothing else
Selective listnening
300
To become a genuine listener you have take off your shoes and stand in someone else's
Second, Stand in someone else's shoes
400
When we actually pay attention to what someone is saying but we only listen to the word, not the body language, feelings or the true meaning
Word listnening
400
Is then with your heart, eyes and years
First
500
Sometimes as we listen to others we make judgments about the and what they are saying if you are judging you are not truly listening
Judging
500
I get you felt that, So I see it, I can see that you're feeling, You feel that, So what you're saying is
Mirroring phrases
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