Conflict Resolution
Your parents ask you to do a task that feels hard and you don't want to do it. What are two ways to manage this without the problem becoming a conflict?
Use coping skills, ask for help, break up the task into smaller steps.
What is a value?
A set of traits, actions, or qualities that are held important to a family or person. what happens when there is different values important for one another.
Describe a win-win situation.
Give an example of this situation that happened to you
Two people in a conflict are both pleased by the end result
List two things that a family provides to meet physical needs
Shelter, food, safety, healthcare, clothing
You have visits with dad or child. what's you do when you feel uncomfortable?
Talk about it
Offer to do something that is comfortable
Be honest
Your brother stole your favorite shirt and wore it to school. While there, he spilled part of his lunch on the shirt, leaving a stain. You are really upset and frustrated. How can you manage this?
Talk with your brother using I feel statement, or other calm assertive communication to let him know how you feel. You cannot change the past, but can set things up for them to go differently in the future.
What are some values in your home?
*personalized response that shows knowledge of the definition of the value
What is a boundary?
Do you have boundaries set?
A set of rules and limits put in place by a person to keep them healthy and safe
List two ways a family provides emotional support.
Listening, loving, accepting, teaching coping strategies
How would you feel and What do you say to you parent or child if they constantly on their cell phone during your visit
You have the right to be upset but need to verbalize it. What's good for one is good for both.
How can someone use assertive communication even when upset or in a conflict?
Give an example when there was a conflict and you struggled with staying calm or talking about it.
Remain calm, walk away from the situation until you are ready to talk calmly, stick to your point and take breaks if the conversation gets too heated.
Can values from one family member to another be different? If so, how and can we learn from them.
Yes, each person in a family brings their own unique perspective. Some values will be shared as a family, while some will be individual.
Describe two factors that can contribute to financial difficulty in a family.
How do you thibk you would feel.
Job loss, job change, illness, death, new family members, separation/divorce, etc.
This function of a family encourages learning and acquiring knowledge, curiosity, and creativity.
Give an example of how your relationship has grown
Intellectual Growth
Have you felt left out of an activity from the rest of the family.
what would you do
What is an example of a common conflict in your family? What is a typical response you have? Is there something you would like to do differently in the future?
Personalized response that shows growth and application of skills
How can you respect another family members values?
Get to know their values, understand why they are important, honor the values through your behaviors.
Name two positive and negative things that can result from the addition of a new family member.
Positive: Connect family through generations, entertaining and playing with babies
Negative: Loss of space, sharing resources, feeling left out
True or False:
Shaping moral growth is an essential function of a family that provides children with a code of conduct and a set of values.
True.
Ask you parent or child one question you to scared to ask
Great Job!!!!!
List the steps of resolving a conflict
What's the hardest thing for you to resolve a conflict.
Recognize the problem, Brainstorm solutions, Evaluate solutions, Compromise and/or seek mediator, then Let it go!
Can values change as times goes by? If so, how and why?
Yes, families and people change as they gain new life experience and perspective
Explain how keeping things from one another or trust issues can impact a family.
Answers may vary
Shaping Social Development means a family function that provides basic social skills, sharing, communicating, resolving conflicts, and preserving cultural heritage.
what do you think is missing in your relationship and why
very good !!!!!!
Tell you parent or child something you regret.
Wow that took alot to say. Good job.