Who said it?
"It's not a big deal, your life is great!"
What is the forced optimist?
When you give your full, undivided attention to a speaker, not just to hear their words but to truly understand the message's meaning and intent
What is active listening?
This passive process is sound entering your ears.
What is hearing?
The following quote is an example of this.
"I don't think that is the best outfit for the class president election. Can I help you find another option?"
- Your friend
What is constructive criticism?
Student's wearing outfits from another culture to a school dance in an example of this.
What is cultural appropriation?
"How did he die?"
What is the gossiper?
A form of feedback that provides specific, actionable advice focused on helping a person.
What is constructive criticism?
Connecting meaning with the message.
What is understanding?
The following quote is an example of this.
"You're an idiot! How could you possibly fail another test!"
What is destructive criticism?
When you are putting yourself in someone else's shoes and/or trying to see from a another's point of view you are changing your ______.
What is perspective?
"There are people in the world starving right now, you should be grateful."
What is the guilt tripper?
The ability to understand the emotions and feelings of others.
What is empathy?
Asking clarifying questions or answering with empathy.
What is responding?
The following are just 3 examples of many of these.
"I wonder if"
"I have an idea, what if instead.."
"I've noticed recently"
What are phrases to start feedback with?
An agreement or a settlement of a conflict that is reached by each side making concessions.
What is compromising?
"Just go ask for a retest!"
What is the fixer?
Questions that are asked to resolve confusion and ensure a complete and accurate understanding of a message.
What are clarifying questions?
The second step of active listening, occurs when attention is given and you're interested.
What is Attend?
Has 4 parts, including 2 pieces of positive comments, 1 piece of offering criticism, and offering support.
What is the constructive criticism hamburger?
DOUBLE JEPARDY!!
Select another question: It will be worth 2x the points. But, answer incorrectly and you LOSE the original amount of points. Good Luck!
"Well, unfortunately it was gonna happen one day. Do you wanna grab some food?"
What is the avoider?
The belief that your abilities, intelligence, and talents are not fixed but can be developed through dedication, effort, and learning from challenges and setbacks.
What is growth mindset?
Maintaining eye contact and not showing signs of being distracted, are both great ways to show that you are *this* while actively listening in a conversation.
What is engaged?
What is not responding right away?
Recognition or affirmation that a person or their feelings or opinions are valid or worthwhile.
What is validation?