Values
Abuse
Love V.S. Infatuation
Boundaries and abstinence
Bystanders
100
What are values?
Values are how much something is worth to you or someone else.
100
Does it always have to be physical abuse?
No.
100
What is the definition of infatuation?
Obsessive love.
100
What is one boundary you can set to make sure you don't stay in an abusive relationship?
If he abuses me in any way then I'll end the relationship right away.
100
What is a bystander?
Bystanders are people who witness an act of bullying, they stand by and watch.
200
People who share values are often ________ friends.
People who share values are often good friends.
200
What kind of abuse involves money?
Financial.
200
What is the definition of love?
When you love someone unconditionally
200
What is abstinence?
When you chose not to take risky behaviors.
200
Are bystanders important?
Yes (why?)
300
Name four of your values.
Name your values. For example, friends, family, education, drug free, honesty, abstinence, etc.
300
What kind of abuse involves friends and family?
Social.
300
Is love one-sided?
Love is not one-sided.
300
At this age (13 & 14 ), is it reasonable to have boundaries?
Yes, it is reasonable to have boundaries around this age.
300
A _______ is often a bystander.
A friend is often a bystander. [Are you?]
400
What influences your vales at this age? (13 & 14)
Your peers. (friends)
400
Name four types of abuse.
Mental emotional, social, financial, sexual, spiritual, social media, physical and verbal.
400
Is infatuation always unhealthy?
No.
400
What are boundaries?
Boundaries are guidelines to protect yourself from an abusive relationship. (Or an unhealthy relationship in general)
400
What is one way you can stop an act of abuse?
Use on of the three D's.
500
Values make a relationship _______?
Values make a relationship better.
500
How do you help a friend that is being abused in a relationship?
You can ask them questions about their relationship, believe their story, tell them that nobody deserves to be abused, talk to a councilor and point them to resources.
500
What are two signs of a healthy relationship?
Trust, respect, honesty, etc.
500
What are two of your boundaries?
Not controlling, understands my values, there is no violence, etc...
500
What are the three D's?
The three D's are : Direct, Distract, Delegate.
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