Coping & Communication
When someone tells you a joke that offends you.
Calmly let them know; Respond with a non-offensive joke
There are a number of appropriate ways, depending on the situation. Some examples are: Politely saying, "excuse me" or "That makes me uncomfortable" or walking away from the area.
When an acquaintance is being friendly, it is appropriate to respond by intimately touching them.
False
Oversharing personal information
Porous
Those who may occupy intimate space
Family, close friends, intimate partners, pets; or those you have a close relationship with; given permission to do so
When someone becomes verbally hostile with you (e.g. yelling, screaming, swearing)
Remain calm; Respond "I hear you," "I see you're upset, let's talk so I can understand better;" Walk away
More examples?
What is considered "intimate space?"
"Intimate space" extends outward from our bodies approximately 18 inches.
It is generally okay to embrace strangers, acquaintances, and those we have a professional relationship with, without their permission.
False.
Does not compromise personal values for others
Healthy
Those who occupy personal space
Friends and acquaintances
When an acquaintance provides you with too much information about their intimate life
Let them know you are uncomfortable with the topic, prefer to keep such information personal; change the subject
Within what distance are you in another's "personal space?"
"Personal space" extends from 1.5 to 4 feet away.
(LiveScience)
You may be crossing a boundary by telling an offensive joke to a general audience or those you are NOT in a close relationship with.
True. If you are uncertain how those around you feel about a certain topic, what you say could be hurtful, traumatic or offensive.
Accepts abuse and disrespect from others
Porous
Someone who may enter your intimate or personal space in a professional manner or when necessary for your well being
Medical professionals, therapists, caretakers (with permission or in an emergency situation)
When the neighbors are too noisy
This is when having previously established a good relationship with your neighbors comes in handy... Engage in polite conversation
Who should occupy our "intimate space?"
It is okay if a close personal friend refuses a hug
True
Avoids intimacy and close relationships
Rigid
Who may enter your intimate or personal space, with your permission, but does not want intimate contact in return?
Medical professionals, therapists, and caretakers
A close relative asks for a favor you are unable or unwilling to give
"No."
A firm "NO" with or WITHOUT explanation is okay.
What part of the brain is activated when you invade people's personal space?
The amygdala (a.k.a. the "lizard brain"), which is responsible for the "fight or flight" response.
Being over-involved with other's personal problems is an example of having porous (loose) boundaries
True
Accepts when others say "no" to them
Healthy
What type of relationship is it appropriate for someone to touch you in an intimate manner without your consent?
No relationship