Red Flags
Why are they doing that?
Boundaries
Let the good times roll!
100

This emotion and subsequant behaviours, can arise from fear of losing someone's affection or attention to another person.

Jealousy

100

These patterns of emotional bonds formed with caregivers in childhood shape how individuals approach relationships later in life

Attachment style

100

'I gave you money yesterday, I need the rest for myself, I can't lend any out today'

Is an example of what kind of boundary?

Material

100

This skill focuses on seeking resolutions that benefit both parties

Conflict Resolution

200

This term refers to a partner who frequently threatens to leave or end the relationship as a form of control


Emotional blackmail


This form of manipulation in any type of relationship uses your feelings of guilt, obligation, or fear to obey them.

"If you do this, it will cause me to do will do that" ..

200

What is self sabbotage?

Insecure individuals may undermine a relationship due to fear of rejection or abandonment, leading to behaviors that push their partner away.

200

Establishing boundaries helps prevent this, which can occur when you take on too much responsibility for others' problems or emotions

Burnout or Compassion Fatigue 

200

Listening carefully to what your friends say and showing you understand is using what skill?

Active Listening

300

This manipulative tactic involves making someone question their own reality, memories, or perceptions

Gaslighting

This can often look like blaming you/making you feel like their actions were your fault

300

This psychological term describes the phenomenon where anger is directed at a person or object that is not the actual cause of the anger

Displaced anger

300

When setting boundaries, it's important to remember that saying this word is a complete sentence and a valid response

No.

300

This term describes the process of finding a middle ground where both parties give up something to reach an agreement

Compromise

400

The behavior of neglecting one's own interests, hobbies, and friends in favor of focusing entirely on someone else, is a symptom of what type of relationship?

Codependency 

An individual excessively relies on another person for emotional support, validation, and a sense of identity, often to the detriment of their own well-being. 

Imbalance in the relationship, where one person is overly involved in managing and caring for the other, often neglecting their own needs and boundaries. 

Involves enabling behaviors, difficulty setting boundaries, low self-esteem, and an intense need for approval and validation from others

400

Why do people gossip?

social bonding, self validation, manipulation, conflict avoidance, status/power, entertainment, information sharing

400

This is the first step in establishing healthy boundaries, involving understanding your own needs and limits

Self-awareness

How can you figure out what is ok and not ok for you?

400

What is the difference between empathy and sympathy?

When you empathize, you try to understand and share the feelings of another person. Empathy fuels connection. Empathy is feeling with people 

When you sympathize, you acknowledge another person's feelings and show concern. Sympathy drives disconnection. Sympathy is feeling for people.

 


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