Positive Aspects/Green Flags
If your partner is a "YES" person, always agreeing with you about everything, is that consider a green flag or a red flag?
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If your partner becomes jealous when he/she sees you around other people, you should be concerned.
Yes. This isn't a huge deal, but you should talk to him/her about it, because it may lead to abuse in the future.
What fruit can best be compared to a healthy relationship? and WHY?
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Define Jealousy in a spousal relationship...
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True or False: 7% of middle school students will call the police if they are in an abusive relationship.
True.
Is it ok if your partner doesn't introduce you to his/her family until a few months after your relationship starts?
Explain your answer
What does a Red Flag partner do?
Any of these: your partner; 1.makes decisions with little or no input from you, 2.forbids you from seeing, saying, or doing certain things, 3.argues with you over everything, 4.attempts to blame you for every argument he/she starts, 5.stays angry with you for a long time, often over small things, 6.puts you down 7. abuses you, verbally, physically, or emotionally 8. Accuses you of being jealous when he/she openly flirts with other people 9. Refuses to spend time with your friends and family, and insists that you spend time with his/hers 10. He/She acts as if you aren't there and openly talks down about you
Going back home to the victim of your crime, will produce what, a healthy or unhealthy relationship, explain why?
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BONUS: Going back home to your family for your kids sake even though you and your significant other is not getting along anymore, is that healthy or unhealthy, why?
Jealous people do this....
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True or False: In a survey done in 2005, 30% of the girls in a relationship said their boyfriend threatened violence if they broke up.
False.
2 point question
It's ok for you and your partner to argue in front of your kids
It's ok for you and your partner to argue in public
For both questions explain why
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Why do people stay in an abusive relationship? A. Because their dad told them to B. Because their friends will laugh at them if they break up C. Because they feel it is their fault, and they have to make it up somehow D. Because "Elmo told me that I should never hurt someone's feelings, ever, no matter what the reason"
C
True or False: If your partner yells at you, or gets very frustrated with you, it is a sign that always says "time to find someone else".
False, just because he/she argues with you a little bit, doesn't mean you need to leave him/her.
If you don't get along with your partner's family, what should you do?
Communication, Being open and honest, etc....
name 2 red flags in a relationship
Any of these; your partner; 1.makes decisions with little or no input from you, 2.forbids you from seeing, saying, or doing certain things, 3.argues with you over everything, 4.attempts to blame you for every argument he/she starts, 5.stays angry with you for a long time, often over small things, 6.puts you down 7. abuses you, verbally, physically, or emotionally 8. Accuses you of being jealous when he/she openly flirts with other people 9. Refuses to spend time with your friends and family, and insists that you spend time with his/hers 10. He/She acts as if you aren't there and openly talks down about you
what percent of people would call the cops if they were in an abusive relationship?
A survey done in 2002 found that 7% of people would call the cops.
True or False: One broken person can fix another broken person
If False, explain why
If True, explain why
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Give 10 examples of positive aspects in a relationship
Feeling good about yourself, laughter, outside friends and interests, good manners, introduces you to his/her family, shows you he/she cares, passionate about each other, communicating about activities, respect, and trust
Why do people in a violent relationship not tell anybody?
Explain answer and judge will give point to the most valid answer
What are jealous people significant other allowed to do with their
eyes....
words....
phones....
friends....
family....
at work...
at home....
False, it is just as likely for the boy.
Kenny was smart for choosing Hicks for kick ball....
USC is better than UofA....
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