Green Flags
True or False: If your partner doesn't laugh at your jokes or introduce you to his/her family, means that your relationship is abusive.
False
If your partner becomes jealous when he/she sees you around other people, you should be concerned.
Yes. This isn't a huge deal, but you should talk to him/her about it, because it may lead to abuse in the future.
True or False: Boys are just as likely to be abused as girls
True
a disagreement about beliefs, ideas, or interests
conflict
Parents and other adults are responsible for meeting a family’s ___________.
Basic Needs
Is it ok if your partner doesn't introduce you to his/her family until a few months after your relationship starts?
Yes. In fact, that is a good time to introduce him/her to your family.
Name 2 Red Flags
Any of these: your partner; 1.makes decisions with little or no input from you, 2.forbids you from seeing, saying, or doing certain things, 3.argues with you over everything, 4.attempts to blame you for every argument he/she starts, 5.stays angry with you for a long time, often over small things, 6.puts you down 7. abuses you, verbally, physically, or emotionally 8. Accuses you of being jealous when he/she openly flirts with other people 9. Refuses to spend time with your friends and family, and insists that you spend time with his/hers 10. He/She acts as if you aren't there and openly talks down about you
True or False: Middle school and High school students are the only ones to experience dating violence.
False: Anyone in a relationship, no matter how old, can experience dating violence.
The act of talking about conflict and reaching a compromise
negotiation
the pattern of mistreatment of another person
abuse
Name 5 green flags in a relationship
Feeling good about yourself, laughter, outside friends and interests, good manners, introduces you to his/her family, shows you he/she cares, passionate about each other, communicating about activities, respect, and trust
It's ok for you and your partner to argue.
Yes, but only occasionally, not all the time.
Why do people stay in an abusive relationship?
A. Because their dad told them to B. Because their friends will laugh at them if they break up C. Because they feel it is their fault, and they have to make it up somehow D. Because "Elmo told me that I should never hurt someone's feelings, ever, no matter what the reason"
C: Because they feel it is their fault, and they have to make it up somehow
-opinion or fear formed without facts
prejudice
Responsiblities that children have in families could include: chores, respect, and showing _____________.
appreciation
True or False: If you don't get along with your partner's family, you should leave him/her.
False. As long as the relationship between the two of you is going smoothly, you don't need to leave him/her.
True or false: Red flags in a relationship always lead to abuse.
False
Is it true that people who are in a violent relationship are often time beat up?
No, because just because a relationship is violent, doesn't always mean physically violent. It could be emotionally, or mentally violent too.
When each side gives a little in order to resolve a conflict, the two parties are ______________.
compromising
Name three different types of families.
Blended, extended, couple, foster, nuclear, adoptive, single-parent, etc.
True or false: When someone is a goal oriented person, tries to keep a positive mindset most of the time, and always holds their values close to them, these are good signs hinting towards a positive relationship.
True
Name 3 types of abuse
Physical, Mental, Verbal, Sexual, Financial
Why do people in a violent relationship not tell anybody?
Fear that their partner might react negatively
____________ is the ability to accept others as they are.
Tolerance
"Mother, Father, Daughter, Son, Aunt, Uncle" are all examples of?
Roles in a family