Conflict Resolution
Communication
Attachment Styles
Forgiveness/Apologizing
Boundaries
100

Name one reason conflict resolution is important

1.  it promotes the establishment of deeper more meaningful relationships with those around you.

2.  lets you engage respectfully with others, which in turn promotes a sense of trust

3. Helps us maintain healthy relationships and preventing them from deteriorating beyond repair

4. it allows us to understand ourselves better, our triggers, and our communication styles. 

100

What are the three communication styles?

Passive, Assertive, and Aggressive 

100

What are the four attachment styles?

Secure, Ambivalent, Avoidant, Disorganized

100

What are the three aspects/domains of forgiveness in relationships?

Forgiving someone else, forgiving ourselves, and forgiving the situation or circumstance. 
100

Rigid, Porous, and Assertive

Boundary styles 

200

What term is used when we refuse to communicate with another person and withdraw from the conversation to create distance, also known as the silent treatment.

Stonewalling

200

What skills are used in active listening? 

1. Put away distractions. 

2. Use verbal and nonverbal communication. 

3. Ask open-ended questions. 

4. Use reflections.

200

This attachment style contains the following traits: overly rigid, guarded,  uncomfortable with emotions and conflict, strong sense of independence, uncomfortable expressing your feelings, hard time trusting people.

Avoidant 

200

True or False: Forgiveness consist of: reconciliation (repairing or returning to a relationship), forgetting the issue, condoning or excusing the other’s behavior, and/or "letting go”, but wishing for revenge

False, Forgiveness consists of:

The decision to overcome pain that was inflicted by another person, yourself, or a situation. Letting go of anger, resentment, shame, and other emotions associated with this issue/event, even though they are reasonable feelings. Treating the other person/yourself/situation with compassion.

200

What are some reasons people are afraid to set boundaries? 

1. ­Fear of angering people

­2. Fear of disappointing others

­3. Fear of being seen as difficult or selfish

­4. Fear of being mean

­5. Fear of ruining relationships

300

When bringing up a problem to the other person, the first ___ minutes are crucial.

Three

300

Turn this sentence into an "I" statement

“This kitchen is a mess. You’re such a slob.”

“I feel frustrated when dirty dishes are left in the sink. Could you please do the dishes tonight?”

300

If I have a tendency toward emotional extremes, difficulty maintaining healthy boundaries, prone to high-conflict relationships, fear of rejection, contradictory behaviors, high levels of anxiety, difficulty trusting others, I may have a _______ attachment style 

Disorganized 

300

True or False: Just because we are ready to apologize doesn't mean the other person is ready to accept it. 

True, everyone takes their own time coming to a place of forgiveness nd readiness to move forward and just because we are ready to take responsibility or resolve the issue doesn't mean the other person is. 

300

How would you set boundaries with someone regarding social media?

"I understand you are excited about my new job however I do not like people knowing where I work so can you take down your post."

"I know that this event was important for you too however I would like to be the one to post the photos first."

400

What are the five different conflict management styles?

Competing, Collaborating, Avoiding, Accommodating, and Compromising.

400

True of False: Anytime is the right time to discuss an issue with the other person in the relationship

False, we want to have these conversations when we are not distracted, under the influence, tired, etc. 

400

If I have a secure attachment style, what kind of behaviors will I exhibit in a relationship? 

Engages in healthy relationships with good intimacy, communication, and autonomy. Expresses needs well, trusts their partner, and finds the relationship fulfilling.

400

What are the four phases of forgiveness?

uncovering phase, decision phase, work phase, and deepening phase

400
What are the five types of boundaries?

Physical, emotional, intellectual, sexual, material, time 

500

Individuals with what conflict management style use a combination of being assertive and cooperative to work with others to find solutions that are beneficial to everyone. These individuals see conflict as an opportunity to improve relationships and reduce tensions.

Collaborating 

500

What skills can be helpful to overcome stonewalling in ourselves? 

Self-soothing such as deep breathing, grounding, PMR, pause the conversation and set a return date/time, other forms of self-care. 

500

What is the best predictor of adult attachment styles? 

The perceptions that people have about the quality of their relationships with their parents as well as their parent's relationship with each other.

500
What are the four R's of self-forgiveness? 

Responsibility, Remorse, Restoration, and Renewal

500

How would you set a boundary in this situation? You feel embarrassed and hurt when your partner or friend jokes about you to their friends/other friends. You've asked them to stop in the past and they told you to lighten up, they were just joking.

Setting a boundary with kindness: "I'd like to talk to you about what happened when your friends were here last Friday. I felt embarrassed when you were joking about my cooking. I know you didn't mean any harm, but it really hurt my feelings. I felt like a failure. I'd like you to stop putting me down in front of your friends. It would mean a lot to me."

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