General
Red Light
Unhealthy or Healthy?
True/False
Random
100

Healthy Relationships include which of the following?

a) Having fun together

b) Keeping constant tabs on your partner

c) Respect & Trust

d) Having friends/ interests outside of the relationship

a) Having fun together

c) Respect & Trust

d) Having friends/ interests outside of the relationship



100
You feel like it is your duty to protect your partners reputation or cover up their mistakes. GL or RL?
RED Light- it is ok to support your partner but boundaries must be set for taking responsibility for one's own actions.
100

Partner encourages you to pursue your goals.

__Healthy- support and encouragement to pursue positive & productive goals are keys to a healthy relationship

__unhealthy

100
Being physically abused is the only way to get hurt in a relationship.
FALSE- abuse and pain can be inflicted mentally, emotionally, sexually, physically
100
Does being in a relationship mean you must give up your friends?
NO- having friends outside of your romantic relationship is healthy. It is important to have other social supports to rely on.
200

What are the three types of boundaries?

Rigid, porous, and healthy.

200
Your partner does not like when you interact with other people when you go out, GL or RL?
RED Light- jealousy
200

You make your partner feel like every problem is their fault.

Unhealthy- important for each partner to own up to their own mistakes

200
Conflict & Fighting are the same
FALSE- conflict can be a difference in opinion that can be dealt with positively. Fighting may include yelling and insults.
200
Who are targets of an unhealthy relationship?
Anyone
300
How may the way you feel about yourself effect your relationship?
If you view yourself in a positive way this may help you to be a good partner / attract a good partner.
300
Your partner is usually kind and sweet then suddenly becomes angry and insults you, GL or RL?
RED Light- irrational mood swings are unhealthy
300

Your partner wants to know where you are at all times.

Unhealthy- communication is important however keeping tabs may be a feeling of possession over the other and insecurity

300
Every healthy relationship is the same.
FALSE- no two relationships look the same
300

Healthy relationships include which of the following?

a) sharing feelings

b) laughing together

c) doing things you enjoy together

d) all of the above

d) all of the above are indicators of a healthy relationships
400
A key skill in healthy relationships involves talking things out and sharing information and opinions with each other. What is this skill?
Communication
400
One partner is constantly accusing other of cheating, RL or GL?
RED Light- insecurities are unhealthy in a relationship
400

You feel as is you can be yourself around your partner.

Healthy- important to feel comfortable with your partner

400
Being aware of unhealthy patterns means you are looking for them.
FALSE- being aware helps to keep the relationship on track and safe
400
Do healthy relationships just happen?
NO- healthy relationships require work and effort from both parties involved.
500
"The Golden Rule" known as treating people the way we would want to be treated can be referred to as?
Respect
500

Which of the following is NOT a Red Light in a relationship?

a) having an argument

b) insulting/ putting down partner

c) jealousy/ isolation

a) having an argument - disagreements are ok in relationships once dealt with productively & respectfully.
500

What is a healthy form of attachment?

Secure attachment

500
Both partners are responsible for themselves.
TRUE- even in a relationship you are still your own person.
500

You can:

a) change your partner

b) change yourself

c)expect change


b)

We can only change and control ourselves.

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