Pink or Red flag?
What's a red flag? (definition)
a signal that indicates danger
What's a green flag? (definition)
A signal of a healthy and safe connection
What is All or Nothing Thinking?
Seeing things as ALL good or ALL bad; no gray area
What is a microaggression? (definition)
an everyday/casual comment that hurts someone of a marginalized group (even if unintentional)
What's a pink flag? (definition)
a signal to watch for red flags
Example of Green Flag
Leader Decision
What is Catastrophizing?
Always thinking the worst outcome will happen
What is racism?
discrimination against/superiority over someone based on the color of their skin
Pink or Red? Someone invites you to the park, but decides to go to the coffee shop instead.
Pink Flag - change location unexpectedly
Green or Pink? Someone helps pick up dropped items in the hall.
Green Flag
Give an example of Personalization
Leader Decision - blaming self for things that you have no control over
What is homophobia?
fear, dislike, hatred, or unfair treatment of people who have a non-heterosexual orientation/romantic attraction
Pink or Red? Someone you met online asks for your home address.
Red Flag - never share your address with strangers on the internet.
Green or Pink? Someone tells you that you look pretty for your age.
Pink Flag
What is a reframe of the following example: Nobody ever cares about me.
Leader Decision
What is transphobia?
fear, dislike, hatred, or unfair treatment of people who are transgender, nonbinary, or gender-nonconforming.
Why is it important to look for pink flags when meeting new people?
To stay safe - look out for danger or potential emergencies
Why is it important to notice green flags when meeting new people?
You don't want to miss an opportunity for a healthy and safe connection.
What is the difference between Mental Filter and Disqualifying the Positives?
Mental Filter is focused on negatives.
Disqualifying the Positives is saying the positives don't count for some reason.
Who was a big political figure that fought for Civil Rights for people of color?
Martin Luther King Jr.