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Can I be friends with school staff?
No.
When someone is being paid to provide a service for you, they are not your friends.
A healthy relationship should make you feel uncertain and unsafe
False.
A healthy relationship should make you safe and respected for who you are.
Your partner/close friend gets upset when you talk to your family or other friends.
Is this a red flag (unhealthy), or a green flag (healthy)?
Red Flag.
A partner/friend should encourage you to speak to your family and friends.
I pay for services with someone in the exchange circle.
True!
Examples: Doctor, Dentist, Hairdresser, etc
What are some things a healthy relationship includes?
trust, honesty, communication, etc.
Yelling, shouting, blaming and being mean to someone is an unhealthy way to handle a conflict.
True!
Fights happen. It is important to still be respectful of the other person.
Your partner/friend encourages you to pursue your dreams.
Is this a red flag (unhealthy), or a green flag (healthy)?
It's a green flag!
A healthy relationship includes people encouraging you to do the things that you love.
My mom falls into the participation circle.
False!
She is in the intimacy circle.
What is very important in a healthy relationship?
Communication.
While this can take some practice, speaking openly and kindly with your partner is important.
Taking a break from a disagreement you and someone in your life are having, and come back to it when you're both calmer is an effective way to handle a conflict.
True!
It allows for us to be able to think about how we are feeling, and what we want to say, before we say something we could regret.
Your partner/friend supports your interests and passions by attending events that you are involved in (ex. musicals, pow wows, community service events, etc).
Is this a red flag (unhealthy), or a green flag (healthy)?
It's a green flag!
The people in your life should want to show up and support the things you are involved with.
I high five someone in the participation circle.
True!
Examples: Peers, neighborhood friends, etcIf your partner/friend doesn't respect your personal boundaries, it's okay because you need to show them you like them.
False.
If your partner/friend doesn't respect your boundaries that's not okay! It shows that they do not respect your limits and that is unhealthy.
Your partner/friend makes you feel like every problem in your relationship is ALWAYS your fault.
Is this a red flag (unhealthy), or a green flag (healthy)?
It's a red flag!
Making you believe that every single problem is always your fault shifts blame away from them to make you feel guilty. It's a form of manipulation and it is NOT healthy!
I share my good/exciting news with people in my friendship circle.
True!
I can hug someone in the Exchange circle.
FALSE!
You do not hug people you pay for their services.
It is okay for you to say no to something you are not comfortable with.
TRUE!
You can always say no to something if you are not comfortable with it!
Your partner/friend is constantly keeping tabs on what you are doing and who you are with.
Is this a red flag (unhealthy), or a green flag (healthy)?
Red flag!
If someone is constantly trying to know what you're doing and who you are with, it means they don't trust you. Trust is SUPER important in a healthy relationship.
I kiss someone in my participation circle on the cheek.
False!
People in your participation circle you share similar interests with but are not that intimate with.