Red/Green Flags
Sometimes it's okay to step over someone's boundaries
False
What do you think is 1 right you have when you are dating someone? A) Setting your own boundaries. B) To end your relationship. C) To be equal. D) All of the above.
D. All of the Above
What is the name of our organization?
Domestic Violence Services of Snohomish County
Angelina is talking with a guy friend on her phone, and her boyfriend, Brad, sees her texting the friend. Brad gets mad and demands to see Angelina's phone. Who's at fault, and why? A) Angelina B) Brad C) Angelina's guy friend
B) Brad. He is invading Angelina's privacy by demanding to see her phone. Brad should trust his partner. Jealousy does not give us the right to control others or invade their privacy.
True or False: In order to be in a healthy relationship, your partner MUST like all of your friends.
False.
Always doing what your friends/BF/GF wants to do is considered what kind of relationship? Healthy or unhealthy?
Unhealthy
You have the right to be GUILT-FREE when dating. What does that mean? A) You can refuse to go out on a date without feeling guilty. B) You can do whatever feels right for you in a relationship C) You need to tell your partner where you're going, always. That way they never need to worry.
A. You can refuse to go out on a date without feeling guilty.
What is the correct definition of teen dating violence? A)Pattern of controlling, and abusive behaviors of one person over another within a romantic or dating relationship. B) When one person hits another person while dating or in a relationship.
A)Pattern of controlling, and abusive behaviors of one person over another... It can include verbal, emotional, physical, sexual, and financial abuse. It can happen to anyone.
Grace and Carl are dating. Grace told Carl he should only text and call Grace. He can't talk to other girls, friends included. What is unhealthy about this? A) Carl should also be telling Grace the same thing, that way it's equal. B) Carl has the right to contact whoever he wants, whenever he wants. C) It isn't unhealthy, Carl should respect his gf's boundaries.
B) Carl has the right to contact whoever he wants whenever he wants.
What is one reason why a relationship might start off healthy, but then turn unhealthy overtime?
Lack of effort (comfortability), lack of interest
People are only possessive when they really care about you.
False
When can you end your relationship with someone? A) Only if you have a GOOD reason to B) Only when you don't feel safe C) For any reason at any time
C) For any reason at any time
What does healthy conflict look like/ feel like?
compromise, active listening, empathy, respect, safe, honesty
Name 1 of the types of boundaries for a healthy relationship.
Physical Boundaries (respecting each others' bodies),
Emotional Boundaries (providing support),
Digital Boundaries (How to be a couple on social media)
Name all the different types of boundaries.
intellectual, physical, material, emotional, time
Name 3 green flags.
Mutual Respect, the relationship feels safe, equality, supporting one another, independence, respecting boundaries, healthy conflict, building trust, good communication.
Your opinion is equally as important as your partner's opinion, except when: A) Your partner is the leader. B) Your partner is smarter than you. C) Your opinion is always as important as your partner's D) Your partner didn't ask you for your opinion.
C) Your opinion is always as important as your partner's
What is the difference between jealousy and extreme jealousy?
When someone uses their feelings of jealousy to control the other person, it becomes extreme and harmful.
Your friend tells you they're scared of their partner. What can you do?
1. identify and tell a trusted adult
2. thank them for sharing and let them know you're there for them
3. ask them what they'd like to do about it
4. let them know they deserve to be in a safe, healthy relationship
Consent must be A) enthusiastic, informed, conscious, kind, energetic. B) informed, ongoing, clear, conscious, revokable, verbal. C) enthusiastic, informed, revokable, verbal, conscious, ongoing
Consent must be
C) enthusiastic, informed, revokable, verbal, conscious, ongoing
If the person you are friends with/ dating is constantly putting you down, telling you who you can and can't talk to, to change things they don't like about you, is that verbal, emotional, or mental abuse?
All of them
You have the right to set boundaries. What does that mean? A) You can say "NO" to anything you're not comfortable with (touch, showing things, sharing passwords, etc). B) You can decide to do something with one partner, but not do the same thing with your next partner. C) You can have privacy within your relationship. D) You can set rules for your partner (no social media, location must be on). E) All of the above
All are true EXCEPT for D) you can set rules for your partner (no social media, location must be on).
Name every person in the group.
Caleb M. Caleb T. Andrea, Jacob, Adriana, Tati
Abusive relationships involve one-sided behaviors, where someone uses fear and harm to gain power and control over someone else. Abuse is a choice, only the abusive person can choose to change.