Healthy
Unhealthy
Abusive
100

Being truthful with your partner

What is honesty?

100

Trying to control someone into being how you want them to be

What is manipulating?

100

Not allowing one's spouse to get/keep a job or withholding family money

What is economic abuse?

200

Valuing your partners beliefs and opinions

What is respect?

200

When your partner become jealous when you hang out with other people

What is jealousy?

200

Unwanted sexual advances

What is sexual abuse?

300

You can talk to your partner about anything

What is communication?

300

Making you feel responsible for your partners actions

What is guilting

300

Violent or aggressive behavior in home usually occurring with the spouse

What is domestic violence?

400

Having your own space and time

What is independence?

400

When your partner tries to ruin your reputation or success

What is sabotage?
400

Degrading and making hurtful 'jokes' of one's partner

What is verbal abuse?

500

Believing your partner won't try to hurt you in any way

What is trust?

500

Your partner acting differently around you and when not around you

What is betrayal?

500

A subtle type of abuse that can be perceived by the victim as 'caring'

What is emotional abuse?

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