Hidden Social Rules
You walk into a classroom while someone is talking. What is the hidden rule?
Wait quietly and don't interrupt
What are two benefits of following group rules?
1.) others trust you more
2.) you are more likely to be included
If you interrupt someone, how might they feel?
annoyed or unimportant
Is raising your hand before speaking expected or unexpected?
expected
You accidentally interrupt someone - what should you do?
Apologize and let them finish
What's the hidden rule when using your phone during a conversation?
Put it away and give attention to the person
What are two benefits of taking turns in conversation?
1.) everyone feels heard
2.) conversations flow better
If you ignore someone saying hello, what might they think?
That you are rude and don't like them
Laughing loudly during a serious moment
unexpected
You got frustrated and raised your voice - what's the fix?
use a coping strategy, apolgize
What's the hidden rule about personal space?
Stand an appropriate distance away (not too close)
What are two benefits of staying calm when upset?
1.) problems are easier to solve
2.) others feel comfortable around you
hurt or disappointed
Listening while others talk
expected
You were on your phone while someone was talking, and you realize you missed what they said - what should you do?
apolgoize and ask them to repeat what they said and give full attention
Why is it a hidden rule to say "thank you"?
what are two benefits of noticing other people's feelings?
1.) you can respond in a helpful way
2.) it strengthens relationships
If you stand too close to someone, what might they think/feel?
uncomfortable, awkward
Walking away while someone is talking to you
unexpected
You didn't notice someone was upset - what can you do now?
check in and ask if they are ok