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Name a part of your body that you use to find hidden rules
Eyes, ears
How do pirates say hello to one another?
"Ahoy Mateys!"
How do others feel when you do not follow the group plan?
Frustrated, Confused, Uncomfortable, Sad, Disappointed
What could happen if you do not follow the hidden rules?
Someone could get hurt
People might get upset
You might not be able to join the group
Evan, Jessie and Molly put on pirate hats but Ellie put on a baseball cap. Did Ellie follow the hidden rule?
No
When you follow your own plan instead of the group plan is this expected or unexpected?
Unexpected
When someone says "Ahoy Matey" how should you respond?
"Ahoy Matey" or "Ahoy_____"
Expected behaviors make people feel
Happy, Safe, Comfortable
Unexpected behaviors make people feel...
Uncomfortable, Scared, Nervous
Name one hidden rule everyone follows at your house.
Clean up after yourself
Say good morning
Brush your teeth
Be nice
What are hidden rules?
Rules that are not spoken or written down.
Is it expected to make mistakes?
Yes, everyone makes mistakes.
True or False: It is expected to follow the group plan, think with your eyes, keep your body in the group, and listen with your whole body.
True
What can you do if you break a hidden rule?
Apologize
Think with your eyes and ears and follow the group plan
Name a hidden rule that you should follow in the counseling room.
Close the door
Greet everyone when you first come in
Whole body listening
Sit where you can see the board
What does it mean to keep your body in the group?
Stay together, follow the group plan, do what everyone else is doing
What can you say to a friend who is not following the group plan?
I feel frustrated/uncomfortable/upset when you do not follow the group plan
Please follow the group plan
Let me show you what you should be doing right now
Molly see's that her friends are frustrated that she is playing with toys instead of cleaning the ship. She thinks with her eyes and starts to clean.
Is this expected or unexpected?
How will her friends feel now?
Expected
Her friends will feel happy, comfortable when Molly starts to clean
What is the name of the long tube that pirates use to look at things far away?
Telescope
Monoscope
False
It is expected to work together
The group plan is to walk down the ladder onto the boat the deck but Jesse grabs a rope and swings off the ship. Is this expected or unexpected?
What size problem is this?
Unexpected
Medium problem because Jesse could get hurt
If you can't be safe are you allowed to go on the treasure hunt?
Why or why not?
No, if you are not safe you could get hurt or cause someone else to get hurt.
Sometimes it can be hard to follow a group plan. Name a way you that you stay calm when frustrated or disappointed.
Deep breathing, Listening to music, going for a walk, spending some time alone, watching TV, playing a game
When looking for the treasure where did you have to keep your body?
Keep your body in the group
List 2 things that happen to your body when you feel frustrated or angry.
Sweating, shaking, cry, face gets red, you feel warm or hot