Social Interactions I
How should the topic of one's conversation with a non-mahram be like?
The topic of their conversation should be appropriate and to the point (No excess information).
How should you dress and speak when speaking to the opposite gender?
When speaking to the opposite gender you should dress modestly and speak respectfully.
What is the ruling for a non-mahram man and woman to follow when it comes to touching each other?
Men and women who are non-mahram to each other are not allowed to have any physical contact at all.
True or False? A cousin is mahram to their cousin of the opposite gender.
False.
How should one's voice NOT be like when speaking to a non-mahram?
One's manner and voice should not be too soft or attractive.
How should your behavior be when speaking to the opposite gender?
When speaking to the opposite gender you should be professional in your behavior.
True or False? Playing sports with the opposite gender, if it involves physical contact, is not allowed.
True.
True or False? A brother-in-law or sister-in-law are non-mahram to each other.
True.
Why does Islam have specific rules to follow when it comes to speaking with non-mahrams?
Islam has these rulings to help create pure environments and to stop corruption and sins from happening in our community.
What is a way that we can only stick to what is necessary when we are in a conversation with the opposite gender?
We can limit the conversation to the task at hand and make sure that we do not go beyond that.
Why is it important to be more careful when it comes to posting pictures of ourselves online?
It is more important to be careful with posting online because once something is posted on the internet, it is available to be searched and stored forever, even if we later want to delete it.
How should we act towards non-Muslims and others in the community??
Muslims should have good relations with all people, both male, and female. Whether it is at school, work, or with neighbors. We should be kind and courteous to everyone.
What are three things that a person should avoid when speaking to the opposite gender?
When speaking with the opposite gender, one should avoid joking excessively, entering into personal matters or speaking about inappropriate things, and becoming too familiar with one another.
What does it mean to beware of our intentions when speaking to non-mahrams? What is an example of a good intention to have in this situation?
To be aware of our intentions is to make sure our interaction is good and justified. Examples of interacting with the opposite gender with good intentions are doing a project at school or completing necessary volunteer work at the mosque.
How should you react if a non-mahram messages you privately and it is unnecessary?
If a non-mahram messages you privately and it is unnecessary, you do not have to respond. If you are uncomfortable with how someone is treating you, try to reach out to a trusted adult as quickly as possible.
What is the best way to organize a mixed gathering to keep up with the Islamic Laws?
The safest way to organize a mixed gathering is for the males to gather in one place or room, and for the females to gather in another room.
What is one example of a time where Bibi Fatima (A) displayed how we should be very cautious about our Hijab?
An example of this is the story of when there was a blind man who asked for permission to enter Bibi Faṭima’s (A) house, but she kept a veil between them. The Holy Prophet (S) noticed her actions and asked, “Why did you keep a veil between you and him when he cannot see you?" She answered by saying, “O Messenger of Allah (SWT), it is true that he cannot see me, but I can see him, and he can smell my fragrance.”
Why is it important to not joke or flirt when speaking with the opposite gender?
It is important to not joke or flirt because doing these actions can create improper feelings in either of the two people. Even if the person’s initial intentions are not wrong, they can easily become wrong during the conversation.
What are three rules we have to apply when having online interactions with other genders?
Three rules we have to follow are keeping the interaction direct and to the point, avoiding, joking, or being inappropriate in any way, and avoiding the use of foul language.
Why is it not allowed to take members of the opposite gender as personal friends with whom we develop close relationships with?
It is not allowed because attraction between males and females can never be switched off, so any friendships between opposite genders can end in sinful acts.