Manners
THAT'S AWKWARD
Conversation Maintenance
Perspective Taking
Problem Solving
100
You are eating Thanksgiving dinner with your family and you finish way before everyone else. What do you do?
What is wait patiently and/or talk with others at the table.
100
Your aunt finds a fake nail in her mashed potatoes! How should she react so she doesn't hurt your grandma's feelings?
What is tell her privately or just keep the information to herself.
100
Your dad is talking about going shopping during Black Friday. How can you keep this conversation going?
What is ask him a 'wh' question.
100
Your grandpa forgot to take the food out of the oven and it burned. How does grandpa feel? How do his guests feel?
What is grandpa probably feels bad and embarrassed while his guests are likely disappointed about dinner.
100
Your dad asks you to heat up the mashed potatoes, but you're not sure for how long and you don't want to ask him in front of everybody. What do you do?
What is call him into the kitchen and ask him privately.
200

Your aunt makes brownies just for you, but she adds walnuts (which you don't like). What do you tell her?

You thank her for the kind gesture and don't bring up the walnuts.

200
Your little cousin takes your cell phone and shows family members an embarrassing picture of you. What do you do?
What is tell him that he hurt your feelings and you would like your phone back.
200
You really want to talk about video games at the dinner table, but your mom says no. What can you talk about instead?
What is a topic that everyone can relate to
200

Your brother gives your mom a present and she does not like it. Tell me how each of them feels.

Mom likely feels somewhat disappointed, but thankful for the gift anyways. Your brother feels sad and disappointed that she didn't like his gift.

200
You go to the mall, but there is absolutely no place to park. What do you do?
What is drive around until a space opens up, park down the street and walk, etc.
300
Your family is sitting in traffic and your little sister will NOT stop talking. What do you do?
What is put in your earbuds to try and block her out OR ask her politely if she can be silent for a little bit.
300
Your aunt thinks the cake you made has artificial sugar, but it doesn't. She's diabetic and is about to take a bite. What do you do now?
What is tell her that it's real sugar and you'll try to remember to use different sugar next time.
300
You're talking with your aunt, but she seems to be looking elsewhere and not really paying attention to you. What now?
What is end the conversation with her because she seems uninterested in what you're talking about.
300

You get a gift that you know your friend really wanted. How do you think your friend feels? 

Your friend may feel disappointed or that they did not get the gift they had hoped for. 

300
You are saving up $50 to buy your girlfriend a present, but you are short by $5 dollars. What do you do?
What is ask a family member or friend if you can borrow the money and/or buy your girlfriend a less expensive gift.
400
You are tired of watching football on the television, but your family seems to be enjoying it. What now?
What is ask politely if you can change the channel, ask if you can go into the other room, etc.
400
Two of your friends gave you the same present for the holidays! What now?
What is keep them both and tell them nothing, jokingly tell them both that they each have the same taste, ask if you can exchange it for something else, etc.
400
You are at a party and your friend keeps talking about herself. How long do you let her go on and on and what do you say to her?
What is you let her talk about herself for a little bit and then gradually change the subject to something else.
400
Your little brother peeks and opens up his gifts a day before Christmas. How do you feel?
What is upset/annoyed that he cheated and opened them early OR maybe you don't care at all.
400
Your friend asks you what you want for christmas/hanukkah, but you have no idea what to tell him. What do you do?
What is ask for choices, look online for suggestions, etc.
500

Your grandma arrives, but you do not like her outfit very much. What do you say to her?

What is Hi Grandma, how are you? I haven't seen you in awhile, etc.

500
Your uncle keeps calling you James when your name is Paul. What do you do?
What is you make a joke out of it, politely remind him that you're Paul, ignore it (you don't see him often anyways).
500
Name 4 different ways you can tell by someone's body language that they have lost interest in a conversation.
What is arms crossed, lack of eye contact, looking around, short or no responses, slowly moving away from you, keep changing the subject, etc.
500
You borrow your friend's cell phone to take a picture, but someone bumps into you and it falls to the ground and cracks. Yikes! How does everyone in the situation feel?
What is upset, mad, angry, disappointed, apologetic, etc.
500
You're at the mall and you reach for a particular item at the same time as another customer. What do you do?
What is politely give it up, offer a solution (rock, paper, scissors), etc.
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