Love Languages
Expression of love is through physical affection
What is physical touch?
The decision that one loves a certain other
What is commitment?
Using goals to facilitate desires within a relationship
What is approach goals?
Does every culture love the same?
No
Feeling stressed when left behind
What is social rejection/pain?
Love notes or text messages are really important to people with this love language
What is words of affirmation?
Relates to closeness, connectedness, and bondedness
What is intimacy?
The challenges of ones relationship are equal with one’s relationship-related abilities
Does every culture show love the same way?
No
Setting realistic expectations for what/who you want in a relationship
What is positive illusions?
The amount of time and effort put into this is important to someone with this love language
What is gift giving?
The triangular model of love states that we can break down love into 3 main parts
What is intimacy, passion, and commitment?
Explicit, direct, and perceived by partners
What is visible support?
In South Korea, the women are responsible for this on Valentines day
What is buying gifts for the men?
Accommodating to each others goals leads to more satisfaction
What is interdependency?
Can be a big or small gesture
What is acts of service?
Type of model where people weigh the potential benefits and risks of their relationships
What is the social exchange model?
Support is subtle, indirect, and not perceived by partners
What is invisible support?
This country is too casual with the word "love"
What is the United States?
Suffering caused by separation from a loved one
Whats is physical separation?
Making eye contact with your significant other
What is quality time?
The ventral tegmental area caudate nucleus is activated by chocolate, cocaine, money, and this
What is love?
The early stages in a relationship where couples do a lot of stimulating fun things together
What is novelty?
T/F- People report to be able to "love" things other than people, such as gods, pets, and items
True
The cortex associated with social pain/rejection
What is the prefrontal cortex?