189-190
In about how many verses of the Qur'an does Allah(SWT) say he loves good people and rewards them in this life and in the Hereafter?
100 verses
What is the best way to begin being a good person?
Becoming humble
Give 2 examples of politeness.
1. Saying "Thank You"
2. Holding a door open for someone
Who is always watching, even when you think no one is watching?
Allah (SWT)
1. What makes us a polite person?
2. What makes us a humble person?
1. Saying "thank you" to people
2. Offering thanks to our Creator
Name 5 of the several qualities that a good person displays in his or her behavior.
Humble, joyful, kind, loving, patient, respectful, someone who thinks of others before thinking about themselves, someone who controls his or her anger, never looks down on others, overlooks others mistakes, forgives, smiles, and helps.
Of all the emotions, which one can hurt us the most?
Anger
A good person always respects others, even when they _________________________________.
Don't like everything about other people.
What does an honest/truthful person NOT do?
cheat, lie, or steal
What do we often forget to do?
Say than you to our Creator
Some people practice certain good behaviors, but they might not practice other good behavior. What is an example of this?
A person might be very nice at work, but the same person could be totally different at home - angry, restless or impatient.
Which 2 noble virtues are you practicing when you let go of your anger?
Being helpful is another way of being kind, but how should one act if someone does not want your help?
Respect his or her choice and politely step back.
Name 4 examples of responsibilities children have.
1. Placing your dirty clothes in a laundry basket
2. Keeping your shoes where they belong
3. Keeping your bedroom neat and tidy
4. Taking your dishes to the sink after dinner
1. Why should you be good?
2. What is the wrong reason for being good?
1. For our own sake
2. To impress others or when your parents tell you to be good
What are 2 misconceptions about being a good person?
What is the reality of being a good person?
It is boring & there is no fun in it.
Usually, they are happier and healthier, have peace of mind, and is well respected and loved by all. It is in our best interest.
Name the 3 steps required in becoming humble.
1. Let go of your pride
2. Be kind to others
3. Let go of your anger about minor problems
According to the Qur'an, what is the key to success?
Being patient.
Our Islamic teaching is to adopt the middle path in all matters in life: what will a good person never do?
Adopt the extreme path or indulge in an excess of anything.
1. tongue
2. hands
What is a reward promised to people who believe and do good in 3 of the 4 verses mentioned about being a good person in the Qur'an?
Garden(s of Paradise)
How can you make a humble beginning of a tough situation related to anger?
(Hint: look at the example provided)
Like in the iPad example, letting go of your anger makes you a better person and Allah (SWT) loves your behavior because it is humble and kind.
In terms of politeness, what matters and doesn't matter when a good person is being polite?
Matters: People appreciate your politeness right at that moment
Doesn't Matter: People might not remember your politeness for very long
Not in the book: What is it called when you act honestly/truthfully when no one is watching?
Integrity
What must we take a step or two towards to make us better people?
self development