Ways to Disagree
True or False all the statements below are respectful ways to disagree with someone and tell them what you think
I see your point, however, don't you think that ...
I'm afraid that's not true. Remember that ...
Try to see it from my point of view.
I understand what you're saying, but ...
Imagine for a moment that you are ...
True
-50 points
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-100
What is the STAR Model of problem solving?
Stop
What is the problem?
Think
What are some choices? What might happen with these choices?
Act
Decide and take action
Review
How did it work? Do I need to try again?
-2
When you compromise you are saying that you are completely wrong and the other person is completely right.
True or False
False.
-10
True or False
True -500
Below are all examples of respectful ways to ask for compromise
How flexible can you be on that?
I’m ready to agree if you can ...
If I agree, would you be willing to ...?
We would be willing to ..., provided, of course, that ...
Would you be willing to accept a compromise?
True
+100 points
You want to ask your father/mother/guardian for more money so you can buy the new xbox 1 game. However, your father/mother/guardian thinks you are spending to much money. How can you ask for more money and compromise with your father/mother/guardian?
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+50
What are " I Statements" ?
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+90
compromise means to meet each other halfway, come to an understanding, or make a deal
True or False
+5
You will need to know how to compromise and will use this skill for the rest of your life.
True or False
True
+1
A respectful -- not to mention compelling -- disagreement is one that prioritizes logic over your emotions about the situation.
True of False
True
-30
Your teacher has assigned a group project. You want to present on Antartica however, the rest of your group wants to present on the Desert. You get upset and tell your group partners how stupid they are. How could you have compromised instead?
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+1
What does it mean " Agree to Disagree"?
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+100
The use of compromise is a common solution to resolving disagreements
True or False?
True
+300
Sometimes there is a "grey" area where there is no right or wrong answer.
True or False
True
+90
True or False
Recognize the Good in the other persons disagreement. Yes, you're disagreeing with this person. But, rarely is a suggestion of theirs so bad that you can't find a single good thing.
Before launching right in with your argument, it's best if you can preface it with something that you like about that person's original suggestion -- and then use that as a launching point for your own idea.
For example:I definitely think you're on the right track in saying that we need to improve our customer response time. But, what if we did it this way instead?"
True
Points +100
All of your friends want to go iceskating however, you can't ice skate. You are upset because you feel that no one is thinking of you or how you can't ice skate. How can you compromise with your group of friends while not yelling at them because you are upset.
* School Counselor will determine if answer is correct or not.
+250
What is Active Listening?
a. There is no such thing as active listening
b. The act of mindfully hearing and attempting to comprehend the meaning of words spoken by another in a conversation or speech.
c. It is the same as regular listening
B.
+500
When you compromise both sides get something of what they want but not all of what they want.
True or False
True
+100
Even if you disagree everyone deserve respect and therefore you should at least listen to their opinion.
True or False
True -900
Which one of the following statements sounds more harsh and critical?
A. "You always come up with these big ideas so close to the deadline that you only make things harder for everybody."
B. "I see where you're coming from, but I'm concerned we might be getting too close to the deadline for major changes."
+80
Your little brother wants to eat Mexican. You want Mc Donalds. Your mom is craving Pizza and your father is craving Italian food. None of you can agree where to go. How can all compromise?
* School Counselor will determine if answer is correct or not.
-300
Disagreements are inevitable. But, there's definitely a wrong way and a right way to present your own arguments
True or False?
True
-600
Sometimes people refuse to compromise. They think they are absolutely right and refuse to listen or compromise.
True or False
True
When this happens most people choose to agree to disagree
-600
If you cannot seem to resolve your conflict an neutral adult could always help you.
True or False
True
+25