Seeing Both Sides
Reframing Situations
Feeling Detectives
Kindness Counts
Calm Down Tools
100

This perspective focuses on only your own thoughts and feelings without considering others.

Single perspective

100

If a friend cancels plan, instead of thinking "they don't like", you consider they might be busy. What is this called? 

Reframing

100

This feeling might make your face frown and eyes watery. 

sad, disappointed, embarrassed. 

100

Saying "Please" and "Thank you" shows _______.

Kindness.

100

Taking slow breaths in and out helps you ________.

Calm down.

200

Imagining how someone else might feel in the same situation. 

Empathy

200

Seeing feedback as helpful rather than criticism is an example of this mindset? 

growth mindset.

200

This happens when your heart beats fast and your body feels shaky.

Scared, anxious, nervous.

200

Helping a friend who fell down, is an act of ________.

Being helpful.

200

Squeezing a stretch ball helps release ________.

angry, stress.

300

This thinking pattern assumes you know what others are thinking without evidence.

Mind reading, jumping to conclusions.

300

Technique where you step back and observe a situation as if you were an outside is called _______. 

distancing. 

300

If someone takes your toy without asking, you may feel _______.

angry.

300

When you include someone in a new game or activity, you are being ________.

Inclusive. 

300

Talking to a trust adult when you are upset is a way to ________.

Feel understood, validated, get advice. 
400

Two friends argue about being late- one values being on time, the other flexibility. Seeing both sides require understanding different __________.

Values

400

If you lose a game, instead of saying "I'm bad". I can say ____________."

"I can practice and get better."

400

When a person becomes withdrawn, quiet, to themselves, this is called ________. 

shutting down, freeze response. 

400

When you let someone go in line first, you are being ________.

Considerate.

400

Activities to help calm you down are called __________. 

Coping skills

500

In a conflict, focusing on both your needs and the other person's needs reflects this approach. 

Compromise.

500

If a teacher corrects your work, instead of thinking "I did everything wrong", I can say _________.

"they are helping me learn." 

500

When something happens that makes you feel a negative emotion/reaction, this is called a _______.

Trigger. 

500
Saying something like, "I like your shoes", is an example of a __________.

Compliment

500

Listening to your favorite song/music can change your ______.

Mood.

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