Think before you act
Oops! What now?
Pause and plan
What would you do?
the self-check mirror
100

What is one way to stop yourself before blurting out in class?

Take a deep breath and count to five before speaking 

100

What should you do if you make a mistake on a test?

Learn from it, ask for help, and try again next time.

100

What can you do before you react when something upsets you?

Take deep breaths, count to 10, or walk away.

100

 You’re about to yell out the answer in class. What should you do instead?

Raise my hand and wait to be called on.

100

What is self-reflection?

Thinking about my actions and how they affect me and others.

200

Why is it important to pause before making a decision?

So you have time to think and make a better choice.

200

How can you turn a bad decision into a learning experience?

Think about what went wrong and how to do better next time.

200

What is a "brain break," and why is it helpful?

 A short break to reset your focus and prevent impulsive actions.

200

Your friend takes the last cookie, and you feel mad. What’s a good response?

Take a deep breath and talk to them calmly.

200

Why is it important to notice your emotions before reacting?

So you can choose how to respond instead of reacting impulsively.

300

What is the "Stop and Think" strategy?

A way to pause, think about the outcome, and then act.

300

What should you say to a friend if you hurt their feelings?

"I’m sorry. I didn’t mean to hurt you. How can I make it better?"

300

Name two things you can do to calm down when feeling frustrated.

Take deep breaths, squeeze a stress ball, or write in a journal.

300

You lost a game, and you want to throw the controller. What should you do?

Walk away, take a deep breath, or ask for a rematch.

300

What are two signs that you might be about to make an impulsive choice?

Feeling rushed, heart racing, or wanting to act quickly.

400

What are three things you can do if you feel like interrupting someone?

Raise your hand, wait your turn, or take deep breaths.

400

Why is it important to take responsibility for your actions?

It helps you grow, earn trust, and learn from your mistakes.

400

How does having a plan help prevent impulsivity?

It gives you steps to follow instead of acting without thinking.

400

Your sibling breaks your toy, and you want to scream. What’s a better way to handle it?

Talk about how I feel instead of yelling or hitting.

400

What is a "self-check," and when should you use it?

A moment to ask myself, "Is this a good choice?" before I act.

500

Name one situation where acting without thinking could get you in trouble.

Saying something mean to a friend, running across the street without looking, or rushing through homework without checking it.

500

What is one way to reflect on your day before bedtime?

Think about what went well and what you can improve tomorrow.

500

What is a "thinking routine," and how can it help with self-control?

A habit of stopping to think before acting, like repeating "Stop, Think, Act" in your head.

500

You didn’t do well on your homework, and you feel like giving up. What’s a good next step?

Ask for help and try again instead of quitting.

500

What’s one way you can remind yourself to slow down and think before acting?

Use a visual reminder (like a sticky note) or repeat a phrase like "Stop and Think."

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